Hi
My second son is July born and will be 4.2 when he is due to start school. The school he will attend is a village school teaching 7 years across 5 classes. So he will stay in the same class with the same teachers for both reception and year 1, but during those 2 years have a mix of different aged children including some a year older and some a year younger.
My eldest son's experience has been to struggle socially particularly because his reception friends stayed in the same class and as he was older he moved 'up' to another class. He also says he bored (but I think this maybe to do with friendships) and last year he was cross to be put in the bottom group (which he had identified as such)for phonics which included all the summer born kids so there maybe confidence 'labelling 'issues already.
We are considering whether to delay 2nd sons entry to school for either:
- a full year using nursery and also perhaps home education where we have to ,
- or just delaying until easter
Both of these come with risks as we have been told that if you do not take a school place in the september you may lose it.
Research from other countries shows that delaying education for boys can be beneficial as they are not programmed to sit and learn at the same age as girls (our son likes lots of active play) and as the social relationships set out in Sept in his school don't necessarily carry through to Year 1 these feel good reasons to delay.
Has anyone done this and can advise of their experiences? Or know of any relevant research? Are there any teachers with views?
thanks very much