We recently went to the open day of a possible school for the dcs. The children who showed us round were fab: polite, articulate, and enthusiastic. I want my dcs to be like that when they grow up! We also liked the teachers that we met. Only real reservations were a lack of emphasis on academics (school has only recently expanded from up to 13 to GCSEs so no track record on results)and the head who seemed to be on a different planet, very old-fashioned.
So, mnetters, how much does the head matter? And can a bright child do well at a non-selective school rather than one that goes all-out for the league tables?