I live in a a rough inner-city area and am studying a couse which finishes summer 2010. DS is 2, goes to the wonderful uni nursery and loves it. An still sharing a house with (horrid) ex as it's the way to afford housing and get the course completed.
I had intended to move when my course finished so that DS could go to a good school (local ones here are the kind of places you wouldn't inflict on your worst enemy). But I've now realised that to get the magical combination of a place I can afford and a good school for DS, I need to be living in the right catchment by the applications deadline at the end of this year.
My course is designed for distance-learning and so there's only four weeks of intensive teaching each term interspersed with work from home (most of the other students live miles away). So I could move and then travel - but there's a dire shortage of nursery places in the area I'm moving to, so DS is unlikely to end up anywhere as great as he is now - plus I'd have to bring him with me for the weeks I'd be up at uni and then pay someone to look after him who would be unregistered (and I'd have to pay to keep his nursery place open for that week, as well as full-whack for the week) as a registered childminder or nursery will not keep a place for him for 1 week in 6.
What I'd prefer to do is buy the new house and move there before the cut-off, but stay here mostly during term-time to minimise disruption for DS. Will they decide that I'm not actually living there if I do that though?
The school I want DS to go to is the subject of half of all appeals for the whole LEA and I know competition is fierce.