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Is this dyslexia?

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MaggieW · 08/11/2008 11:17

DS, 7, and in Y2 seems to be progressing well at school. At parents evening last week his teacher said he's a bright boy, he reads well - with fluency and expression, is confident, asks and answers questions readily, and is accurate in his answers. However, when it comes to writing and recording his work, it's as if there's a blockage between his mind and his hand. He just can't seem to do it in a reasonable time. His teacher said it's not through lack of effort or lack of concentration or laziness, she said he's very motivated and is desperately trying to do it, but that it is a complete struggle for him. She said he gets flustered copying work off the board as he can't keep up and then gets panicky about it. He has a teaching assistant on the table he sits at and she is there most of the time helping him (and several others) along.

From doing homework I know it is hard to get him to write things down, although he gets through his spellings and handwriting practice in good time, but his teacher says it is now a real problem although she's at a loss as to what to do. She's concerned because she says it needs to be tackled before January when the work rate rally cranks up, and before he moves up to the juniors. At the same time, she's also very concious of not wanting to damage his confidence and his enjoyment of school.

His teacher is going to talk to the SENCO at school to see if she can help. I've looked up dyslexia and it is one of the things mentioned, but he doesn't really display any of the other symptoms. He's left handed and used to write letters and numbers around the wrong way sometimes, but that happens rarely now.

So it seems this is something that he can't help, and is in his make-up, but could it be a form of dyslexia or are there any other possibilities? I've absolutely no experience in this area, and don't know where to start. TIA.

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LIZS · 08/11/2008 11:31

I dontl think he'd meet the cireria for dyslexia if he can read so well. How are his other motor skills ? Ds is dyspraxic and problems with handwriting and formulating how and what to write, knowing where to begin on a page/line,difficulty copying from board to page are characteristics, see here . However I also think that what you describe is similar to many boys of his age and his teacher is rather overdoing the pressure.

MaggieW · 08/11/2008 13:07

His motor skills seem fine. He draws very clear and complicated pictures, and is a whizz at building complicated Lego sets, that's why it seems not to fit any particular picture, especially having looked at the dyspraxia indicators. You may be right with re pressure. His class is academically a very high-performing one but his teacher, who's very experienced, seems convinced there could be more to this than just boyish slowness!

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asdmumandteacher · 08/11/2008 14:08

I have repeatedly asked my sons school if he has dyslexia (he is 9.3 yet reading age of 8.4) ever since he was in year 2 (am teacher myself but secondary) His school have said no. A couple of my friends sons have been tested - one yes, one no (by ed pysch). I went to a training day at my school at beginning of term and apparantly teachers can now diagnose dyslexia - so if that is the case i am gonna diagnose my son...tbh i think half the time it is diagnosed incorrectly or not diagnosed at all. I feel the system is pants and the private ed pyschs will sometimes say what they parents wanna hear imo.

asdmumandteacher · 08/11/2008 14:09

My son is also left handed and late August birthday

christywhisty · 08/11/2008 16:39

Dyslexics can read well if they have been taught to read using synthetic phonics properly, so just because he reads well doesn't mean he isn't dyslexic.
I answered your other thread on SN. Have you asked him what worries him about copying from the board. My DS said he would forget what he had read. He used to copy sums down wrongly.
He also had no sense of time, didn't know the day of the week but like your ds read well and had excellent comprehension skills.
He can often spell well out loud but can't on paper.
He is 13 and said he was struggling with the word "castle" when he was writing an essay in a test last week.
At primary they said he was not dyslexic because he could read, they said he a specific learning difficulty, but his secondary SENCO said he was dyslexic and can read because he was taught phonics. I don't care really what he has got as long as he got help, which he did .
At secondary he is allowed to do all his homework on PC where applicable, which has helped him a lot.

choccyp1g · 08/11/2008 21:22

Could it be an eyesight problem? Copying from the board needs you to have good vision at a distance and then change back to close vision quickly..
Another possibility is that being left handed he may never have learnt a good pencil grip for writing, but may hold it differently when drawing..

cornsilk · 08/11/2008 21:32

asd mum - teachers can only diagnose dyslexia if they have a specialist qualification.
Agree with christy that some dyslexics do read well. Dyslexia is like a syndrome - it affects everyone differently. Not being able to copy from the board is an indicator - lots of dyslexics have short term memory difficulties which makes copying from the board extremely difficult.

MaggieW · 09/11/2008 12:08

Thanks for your replies. His eyesight is ok, apart from being colourblind - it was tested last month.

His spelling is good - in fact they had a revision test last week, which I didn't know about, so we didn't prepare for, and he got them all correct and all in lovely handwriting. It seems this block between brain and hand is the only common factor with the indicators for dyslexia, but hopefully the SENCO at school may have more ideas. I just want to give him the right help now so that he doesn't get so frustrated that he starts not enjoying school.

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asdmumandteacher · 09/11/2008 14:38

I beg to disagree Cornsilk as we told told that our LEA has said that teachers (and there was no mention of an additional qualification) can diagnose dyslexia - i find that flabbergasting as i don't have a blinking clue.

onager · 09/11/2008 15:25

Don't see how teachers can diagnose it. Do they mean just recognise the symptoms well enough to pass them onto someone else?

For what it's worth I'm not dyslexic yet I had a terrible time with writing in school and since. I was fine with most things and way ahead with reading, but writing I avoided as I found it extremely difficult and embarrassing.

The way I describe it is if you taped a pencil to the end of a ruler and tried to write holding the ruler. Imagine how hard it would be to control. I know what the pencil is supposed to do but I can't make it do it.

Thank goodness for computers.

cornsilk · 09/11/2008 15:55

asd mum - You need a specialist qualification to be able to diagnose dyslexia. Teachers can obtain this as an extra qualification after they have qualified as a teacher. Perhaps your LEA was talking about screening for dyslexia.

bramblebooks · 09/11/2008 16:13

I have a masters degree in dyslexia but I'm still not qualified to diagnose it! I would always tell parents that there are dyslexic indicators, however, I do know about the programmes to put in to support children and the modifications to classroom teaching which are necessary.

Ask for a referral to SALT who will be able to examine things like short term memory and language processing.

asdmumandteacher · 09/11/2008 19:31

I would have thought you did need at least extra training and was as i say flabbergasted when we were told that the LEA said we could diagnose it - perhaps the lady giving the INSET has got it wrong

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