I've followed various threads on here about the state/private dilemma at reception and they all seem to come back to one theme - will my dc be able to cope with the entrance exams if we decide to take him out of a state school for a private prep.
I have the same worry. There is a lovely primary school down the road from us. It used to be very rough and when we moved here two years ago I discounted it, but the head has turned it round. I've been to visit a couple of times and really like the atmosphere, much more so than the private schools that start at 4 in the area, which I find uninspiring and stuffy.
BUT there are some outstanding preps near us which start at seven. Ideally, I'd send my dd to the primary and then transfer her to one of them. The primary head says she's no problem with me doing that. My worry is though that she won't get in, as the private kids will have been crammed for day one for the exams. I rang one of the schools and asked if being at a state school would disadvantage dd and they said "well, we do take a few state children, but we do have a certain academic standard to maintain" which left me a bit , as we're talking seven-year-olds here, not bloody Harvard business school.
So what to do? I'd really hate to miss out on the primary, which would give my dd local friends apart from anythingelse. But am I going to spend the next three years worrying about 7+ like the kind of neurotic pushy mummy I profess to despise? If others can reassure me their dcs passed 7+ from state primaries I'd be very grateful. Thank you.