but the oxbridge ruling does mean that if your parents can't afford to support you then you can't go. (nb this wasn't an issue for us!!!)
part of the problem currently is that because of the way the university system has been expanded, by both this and the last govt., that there are in some ways too many students in the HE system and it can't cope without extra money - and where is that going to come from? i agree with you, marina, that things were rather too cushy in the days of grants and that possibly today's students, having to make more of a contribution themselves, may appreciate what they are doing and study a bit harder. (or maybe they won't!)
we have 2 younger boys as well as the girls; the youngest is 8. by coincidence, when he was a baby we had a life insurance bloke round and we asked him then about possibly getting insurance policies towards uni - at that time our others were 6, 9 and 12 and tuition had not yet been introduced but was being threatened. his estimate was that we would need a total fund of £100,000!!!!! given the fact that his computer had turned the dates given to it into 4-year courses instead of 3, he was probably quite close as most sources now suggest £5-6000 per year to cover everything. but the premiums required would have stopped us eating...
there was a piece in the guardian on saturday about stakeholder pensions which said that if you put your £15 a week (child benefit) into one JUST from 0-18 and then stop, by the time the child reaches 60 its fund would be worth £250,000. some of you might think that would be a better investment...
thanks for the good wishes, marina! i'm SURE she will!