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Can a teacher have their own child in their class?

137 replies

Hattie07 · 23/06/2026 18:03

Hi All, does anyone have any advice or knowledge when it comes to schools allowing their staff to have their own child in their class?
Thank you xx

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RaraRachael · 23/06/2026 22:38

If anything, I feel my auntie was unnaturally hard on me when I was in her class. I was very well behaved and a good singer and reader but got told off unfairly and didn't get chosen for any parts as I did in other classes.

WeAintNoArgentina · 23/06/2026 22:39

Speaking as a child who was in their mothers class, if anything they’ll be treated more harshly 😂😂😂

Neodymium · 23/06/2026 22:41

I have had my son in my class once. Teaching high school and teaching the specialist subject there was no option but for him to be in my class. I wasn’t a fan. I said the next year if they couldn’t swap him to the other class then swap me out somehow

mondaytosunday · 23/06/2026 22:48

Well surely it can’t be avoided on many cases. If you’re the only Biology teacher then you will have to teach your own child. I imagine hard on the kid though and the parent would be tough on them to avoid any accusations of favouritism.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/06/2026 23:49

My DF was my chemistry teacher in what we’d now call year 8 and for A level. It was fine apart from not knowing what to call him.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 24/06/2026 00:08

TeaCupTinsel · 23/06/2026 22:36

I realise this will sound sassy over text and I genuinely don't mean it to but: what business is it of yours who a teacher has in their class?

If you're concerned about favouritism: if anything, speaking as a teacher who has taught their own child, I was more firm with boundaries, especially with my child as I was hypersensitive to the fact I needed to be balanced and fair to all.

Teachers are professionals and we have a duty of care to all students. If the head has allowed the teacher to teach their own child, I am sure there would be a good reason for it.

Exactly this. It’s the HT’s decision

HoppingPavlova · 24/06/2026 00:20

What is the actual issue? Do you believe the teacher will only teach their child and not the other teacher, that their child will get all the class ‘rewards’, or??? It seems odd that it’s something that has not occurred as yet, so no issues can have presented and yet you have a problem with it.

caringcarer · 24/06/2026 00:26

I used to live in a very rural village in Yorkshire. They had a lower primary class for reception to year 2 and higher primary class for year 3 and 4. Teacher of lower primary had 2 of her own DC in her class.

Dodorogers · 24/06/2026 00:28

Hattie07 · 23/06/2026 18:25

I'm another parent and I'm aware there are other parents who don't agree. So just looking for some advice and knowledge around the situation.

Relates to Primary School and I'm aware the teacher has taught other year groups so I would see that it could be avoided.

Why are you bothered?

OreliaAnd · 24/06/2026 05:35

@Hattie07 you really have no grounds to appeal. We have a similar set up in an independent school, and there is favouritism with said child and their friends only. The school is aware that some parents see this as an issue purely because of behaviour problems not being dealt with fairly. I think you just have to suck it up and hope the school are fair to all.

stichguru · 24/06/2026 07:36

TAlife · 23/06/2026 20:53

This thread is bonkers, what on earth has it got to do with you? Please don't contact school about this it would be embarrassing!

THIS!

MCF86 · 24/06/2026 08:56

KitchenColourandstyle · 23/06/2026 20:53

They probably didn't want y6 having a change of teacher at Christmas. The primary mine went to always tried to ensure YR and Y6 would be as stable as possible. Obviously unplanned/ unforeseen events could crop up but if they knew a teacher would be going on maternity leave they would not leave them in reception or Y6. It could be the case that Y1 teacher was the one that was keen to take over y6 so rather than have a massive shuffle that moved several teachers up or down to all stay in groups they were happy with they thought a straight swap that meant the teacher had their own child for 4 months was preferable.

Oh I completely got moving her from year six, but there was quite a shuffle that year so having her in the only class she had a child in seemed like a strange choice. I wasn't bothered as another parent, I just thought it was strange because the teachers/support staff (I am a TA) I know do their best to avoid their children during the day!

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