Bruern Abbey - PDA suitable?

[cushionsarelife]

Hi,
I am looking for some recent insight into Bruern Abbey school and whether it would be suitable for an autistic child with PDA profile.

My son is about to be 8, has an EHCP and has done a year out of school previously. He was attending a specialist SEMH setting but this has broken down due to the extreme violence of the other pupils.

He is very bright and when in the right environment, feeling safe and with trusted adults and friends he thrives. However, when he is anxious, feels under pressure or senses loss of autonomy he can lash out and behaviour can be challenging.

we have looked around Bruern and chatted with Admissions and they think that he could be a fit there - but as they specialise mostly in dyslexic and learning disabilities rather than ASD I would love to know if anybody has a child there with ASD and especially with the tricky PDA profile?

How flexible are they if your child just 'can't' and needs a break mid lesson, can they opt out if they feel too anxious? How is challenging behaviour dealt with - do they understand that it's not a 'bad child' but a child who is feeling under threat? are there break out spaces if they just need to take a minute?

Any parents with experience I would love to hear from you. It's such a major decision and I don't want to mess it up!

thank you very much!

I don’t have up to date personal insight on Bruern but I know people who have looked at Bruern and got close to saying yes but then decided against due to a whole variety of reasons. All of these dc did not have dyslexia as their main need . It does look like an amazing school and hopefully someone will be along to give a more recent experience.

I wonder about looking at St Chris in Letchworth as well? St Chris has a continuously staffed sensory room in the prep section as well as a continuously staffed whole school sensory room in their SRP. I’m only aware of one other private school which has an SRP and it’s very good for kids who need time to recover their equilibrium.

Thank you for your reply that’s super helpful. I feel we may get to that tipping point and then pull back at the last minute! Eek.

we are not Oxford based so it’s a v long drive to Bruern for us - I’ll look up St Chris too - thank you!

Hi OP
Did you continue in your admission journey? We are considering the same school for our son with a similar profile..