My 10 yr old ds has just been to the Dyslexia Institute at Staines - after years of 'is he/isn't he' on my part and of 'he's ok, he's just a bit below average' from his school.
He turns out to be definitely dyslexic (D on a scale A = not dyslexic to F = most serious dyslexia) - and exceptionally intelligent! When we explained the results to him, it was like water in a desert and all the seeds flowering at once. You could just see him feel better about himself.
Apparently one in a hundred children would have his IQ, and only 1 in a hundred with that IQ would have his level of dyslexia. Am I right in making that a 1 in a 1000 chance that his teachers would have taught a child like him before?
His intelligence has pulled up his reading/spelling so that he appears just below average - whereas if his intelligence were average, his reading/spelling would be bumping along the bottom.
Looking back he was such a bright happy cheerful boy in the infants - and so (sporadically)miserable angry and frustrated from the age of about 7 - why didn't I act earlier?