Ruslara. bare with me - my tale is long and tedious.
last september my DD (10) had a tummy bug. since then she has had nausea and tummy pain constantly.
around the same time she was bullied by a nasty piece of work at school - this has taken a long time to sort out but eventually said bully left the school but DD still suffers from this nausea and pain.
She has had numerous blood tests - all negative. seen numerous doctors who think she has gastritis (a wooly term for indegestion) she has been taking medication for a few months now with no change at all. They are following her up again in July.
her behaviour has been shocking, both at home and at school. she went through a few months where i had to drag her in to school kicking and screaming. she will go in now but gets into trouble alot for talking, not listening, not doing as she is told etc.she argues with friends. she won't work properly, won't read and if she does homework it is rare.
She has huge enormous tantrums and gets physically violent and throws things around.
Although on the other hand she can be sweet and nice and cuddly. she is bright but gets bored easily. And yes - I do work very hard to stop the behaviour and to get her to work.
reading all that you could say i too am a deluded mum and 'if that was my child i would make her behave/do her homework' etc but i guess you have to be there and know her to actually see what i'm getting at.
my point is, i suppose, that unlike what i did - don't let it drag on and on and wait to see if he'll grow out of it. arrange to see his teacher and/or the head teacher. try to find out if there are problems at school, whether with work being too easy or difficult, or it is a friendship/bullying thing. Or ask his friends parents if his friends have said anything about what is going on at school.