This is for dd's secondary school.
To give a brief background, dd has a joint disorder that means she sometimes needs to use a wheelchair, can only walk short distances and cannot cope with stairs.
The catchment school was not an option as it is a large school with stairs and no lifts. Also new management who were not able to tell us anything about how they would ensure acessibility or support dd. And school is going to be a building site next year=even more inaccessible.
We therefore applied to a local secondary school just out of our catchment area, which is compactly built and where she would have access to all classrooms, and where the staff seemed very clued up the whole disability thing. We submitted letters from dd's GP and her paediatrician to support our case.
Instead, we were given a place at another out-of-catchment but local school, which is also large and has stairs without lifts. When we visited this school on Open Evening and asked about accessibility, they said they reckoned dd would have to sit and work with a learning assistant if she couldn't access the classes. (they knew that dd is in top set and does not need a learning assistant for any educational reason, so this wasn't what they were talking about)
I rang the admissions officer and asked what was going on.
-Oh, she said, the school you put as your first choice was not on the LEA's list of schools suitable for disabled children, so we didn't think your daughter could be disabled, so we didn't think the medical letters were relevant. (!!!)
My job will be to go into the hearing next week and explain, very gently, to the LEA that not all disabled people are disabled in the same way and that they therefore have different needs according to their condition. That the LEA's list no doubt is made up from a perception of disabled children in general and that we are applying for a school place for one individual in particular. Do you think there is any chance, whatsoever, of this sinking in?
My greatest fear- because I have spent the last 4 years beating my head against various brick walls- is that I will lose it and start frothing at the mouth. I have prepared what I'm going to say very carefully, but I'm still so tense. And it's ds's birthday this week and I can't concentrate on him at all, poor little lad.
Any kind words, supporting messages etc will be greatly appreciated.