My son is 4 and due to start school this year. He has been diagnosed with autism and global development delay and is pre-verbal. He has a good understanding of a lot of things, ie understands when we tell him to put his shoes on / take them off (and can do so), understands to share or take turns at nursery etc. He is quite a relaxed child and does not particularly seem bothered about routines etc or by loud noises, crowds of people. He has an EHCP we are about to finalise and we are struggling to decide which type of school would be best. He is currently at a SEN nursery which he enjoys.
Initially we applied for a SEN mainstream (extra funding, autism centre etc) but they refused as they have too many SEN children and have basically been used as a cheaper substitute for specialist by the LA. We then spoke to 2 mainstreams who said they didn’t feel the could meet need. All 3 schools advised specialist.
It went to panel and the LA said they feel specialist would hold him back and he would be best suited to mainstream with extra support. However they still sent his EHCP to our local specialist / autism school, who have since said they feel mainstream would be better for him and he would be held back in specialist.
There is another school that may be suitable (extra funding for SEN kids, sensory rooms etc) and the children get the chance to have the input they need, ie speech therapy, time in the sensory room but they remain part of the mainstream class and are encouraged to contribute as much as possible. We are looking to tour there but as it’s half term everything is paused.
We are going round in circles and getting very stressed!! Has anyone been in a similar situation? Or can anyone give some advice? TIA