Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to reply. I really appreciate it. There have been some very insightful comments, particularly from others with children who have faced similar struggles and those who have worked in schools.
Apologies if I wasn’t clear regarding the EHCP request. The council has decided not to proceed with a statutory assessment, stating that they believe "My Child's" needs do not currently require special educational provision under an EHC Plan.
My child is in KS3, Year 9, and will soon turn 14. They take medication for ADHD, which has significantly improved their engagement in lessons and ability to complete work. It has also brought their detentions down to zero, which is fantastic! However, I still feel that their academic output is below the expected standard for a Year 9 student, especially as they have already begun some GCSE coursework.
While my child is articulate and can verbally answer questions, they struggle immensely with writing. If asked a question, they can respond fluently, but when required to write it down, they become confused and struggle to organise their thoughts. Their punctuation is also virtually non-existent.
Aside from reading intervention, my child does not receive any additional support in school. The SEN plan states that they should sit at the back of the classroom and are permitted to use a laptop in some lessons. There are a few exceptional teachers who go above and beyond to support my child, and I am incredibly grateful for them. I also pay for a tutor twice a week, which is a significant financial burden but provides 121 support that isn’t available at school.
The SENCO believes my child will "be fine" and does not require any additional support, nor do they support my EHCP request. I’m now realising that, as a high-performing state school, it may not be the right environment for my child
To the poster who asked, "What do I want from the plan?"—honestly, I had hoped that an EHCP would formally recognise my child's specific challenges and ensure they receive additional support, as well as extra time for tests and exams. My understanding was that an EHCP would secure additional funding for the school, allowing for this extra provision. I have been requesting targeted educational support since Year 2!
Following advice here, particularly from Kungfufightingwithexperttiming, I’m now wondering whether I need to fund independent assessments for numeracy, literacy, etc., rather than relying solely on the Child Psychiatrist’s reports (more £££££) that supported the EHCP request. I genuinely don’t know what further evidence the council expects me to provide to justify the statutory assessment.
I’m increasingly worried that my child is running out of time to achieve the Grade 4 GCSEs needed for further education—they hope to attend a local technical college—or to secure a job that provides financial independence.