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Advice on thinking about suing my child’s school.

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questio · 09/01/2025 09:50

My primary aged child was in school, walked past an interactive white board which had extremely sharp edges and it sliced in between his fingers, resulting in him having to go to the ER and having it glued and steri stripped and now bandaged up. He’s an elite dancer with a huge show coming up in 10 days, he tried training the evening after the accident but his wound split back open and he had to have it redone. He has been told no dancing for at least two weeks while it heals, this has really upset him, the thought of not being able to participate in a dance show he’s been training 12 hours a week + for the last 4 months has really put a dampener on his spirit. I emailed and asked the school to see the risk assessment on this whiteboard as why is it in a kids classroom if it’s that sharp. I didn’t get a reply email but the head rang me instead, saying they have removed it from the class room and contacted the company it’s from to return it as they were not aware it had sharp edges underneath. She was very apologetic and said they now have put the old one from the library in its place which has been checked and no sharp edges or any way to be a risk to injury and hopes this has reassured me.
Im not one to think about suing, I’ve never claimed against anything before but I’m considering speaking to some one, as this should have never happened in the first place. I’ve worked in schools and we risk assessed every item in that classroom before hand.
Yes I’m aware making a claim will not make my child’s hand heal any quicker and able him to get on that stage to complete his dance routine, but I feel more should of been done to prevent this from occurring and now because of their negligence I’m out of pocket due to dance subs and any dance moms will understand how expensive dance costumes, theatre tickets and all else that comes with it will understand.

any thoughts

Advice on thinking about suing my child’s school.
OP posts:
Ohnonotmeagain · 09/01/2025 10:55

If you’re in the uk no point, you won’t get anywhere.

if you’re in the us (ER, dance mom) it may be different.

as this is a UK forum I suspect most people will answer no as we don’t normally sue for this sort of thing. US opinion may be different so you may be better canvassing US opinion.

thinktwice36 · 09/01/2025 10:55

Ridiculous,

amymel2016 · 09/01/2025 10:56

Why would you sue them? What have you/he lost apart from missing a dance competition? I would also ask why he was touching the whiteboard, you don’t get a cut between your fingers just ‘walking past it’. Get a grip OP.

ImWorkingLateCosImASingerrrr · 09/01/2025 10:57

You want to sue for that 😂😂😂😂😂😂

A small cut with a single steri strip?

Jesus. You really are one of those mothers.

Ttcagainnow · 09/01/2025 10:57

No you don't! Gosh some parents!

Pumpkinpie1 · 09/01/2025 10:57

Absolutely ridiculous idea! Sue for what ?
IT WAS AN ACCIDENT

DoAWheelie · 09/01/2025 10:58

Tape his fingers together so he can't spread them and open the wound and stick him on the stage. It'll be mostly healed in 10 days anyway. I had major surgery and the incision wounds were closed up by day 8 - a small hand cut will heal fine.

FiveTreeHill · 09/01/2025 10:58

You can't sue for a cut ffs
It's a cut. It will heal. There are no long lasting effects of a cut.

Your son was running his hands along the underside and really shouldn't be touching an interactive white board anyway

Bettyspants · 09/01/2025 10:59

I’m pretty sure this is a trolling post. Seems there’s been a few removed this morning. Never seen such a fuss made over a tiny injury , which could have happened at any time with a multiple number of things. Plastic pull out trays for example have a relatively sharp underside. Why was he even fiddling with the white board? I’m assuming your son is key stage 1 age.

Nothing to do with ‘mumsnetters think uk schools can do no wrong,’ far from it, just having a very small amount of common sense. More suited to AIBU….

MrRydersParlourGame · 09/01/2025 10:59

I sincerely hope this is a wind-up.

If not, congratulations on being completely absurd, teaching your child absolutely no resilience and generally making the world a worse place to live with your neurotic blame-culture, I suppose!

Donttellempike · 09/01/2025 10:59

Even if there were a valid claim ( there isn’t) damages for out of pocket losses are limited to those reasonably foreseeable as flowing from the index incident. So not anything related to dance classes .

Strictlymad · 09/01/2025 11:00

I don’t understand how walking past a whiteboard made it go in between his fingers?

BruhWhy · 09/01/2025 11:00

That injury is absolutely tiny 😂

This has to be a joke.

VisitationRights · 09/01/2025 11:02

Utterly ridiculous

WiddlinDiddlin · 09/01/2025 11:03

Was he asked to touch, lift, carry, run the board between his fingers?

I suspect the answer is no there.

Was the board placed where it could fall on him as he walked past, and did so?

I doubt it..

Have you lost money you otherwise would not have spent?

Also no.

I fail to see what you're sueing for. Irritation? Frustration?

It sounds very much like your kid was pissing about with something he should not have been touching, and got hurt and the school have acted correctly in removing the object from pupils reach.

GentlyAnarchistic · 09/01/2025 11:03

A huge over reaction. It'll cost you a fortune to sue. I sued the NHS, it took three years to reach a settlement. I had an immediate admission of negligence by a surgeon who cost me my career and very nearly my life.

buybuysellsell · 09/01/2025 11:03

This is a great opportunity for you to role model resilience to your child. You can show him that how you deal with a challenge like this is to accept that sometimes bad things happen and the important thing is to pick yourself up, dust yourself up and keep going.

Teaching him to see himself as a victim who deserves recompense for a routine accident is not going to help him in the long run. Neither (IMO) should you create an acrimonious relationship with the people who are looking after and educating your son for the majority of his waking hours.

The photo is completely unnecessary btw!

Superhansrantowindsor · 09/01/2025 11:05

What would be the point? My daughter had a nasty accident at school due to faulty equipment. Staff didn’t know it was faulty until the accident. They apologised. Schools have enough crap to deal with. What do you want? Money?

HardenYourHeart · 09/01/2025 11:06

Rage bait?

Lalalol · 09/01/2025 11:06

Only an absolute horror show of a person would consider suing for this obvious accident

DogInATent · 09/01/2025 11:07

primary aged child.. "elite dancer"..
ffs

Cloacina · 09/01/2025 11:07

Suspect we won't hear from the OP again on this highly divisive (not) issue. 😂

JSMill · 09/01/2025 11:07

Your ds shouldn't have been anywhere near the whiteboard.

Notimeforaname · 09/01/2025 11:08

Well he didn’t get that from just walking past it, did he. He must have touched it or tried to lift/move it if it sliced his fingers like that. It doesn’t sound like the school was negligent- if anything it would be the manufacturer

This, don't sue.

Fluufer · 09/01/2025 11:08

I don't understand why he can't dance? It's not a severe injury. Like PP says, just tape his fingers together.
Of course you can't sue because your child walked into something.

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