Oh for goodness sake. All this misery about being wealthy. So hard done to.
My DH paid over 200k tax a few years ago. He was happy to do so.
Part of being part of a national community and being immensely lucky to be clever, and hard working, and healthy, and in a profession that pays well , is the idea that those who have broader shoulders give more.
As it happens we have a disabled child who is a net taker. Mid 20s, on high level pip, with social care package. He will likely never be able to work more than a few hours a week in a highly adapted role. He will have no private pension. Once we have gone he will rely on the state for support. But high earning DH isn't inherently more valuable as a person.
Yes it's important not to discourage business and innovators and risk takers, and any return to the 90 percent tax rates of the 60s would be stupid. If you feel attacked because despite all the wringing out of you financially that is happening you still earn more take home than your parents, and have enough spare dosh to pay out independent school fees, maybe you might want to reflect that you are doing ok? There's only so many range rovers a person can drive after all.