@LetItGo99
‘From feeling fine about paying that whopping amount of tax that makes this country run, I've now gone to absolute rage and confusion’
This is where our household is too. Similar tax payers and have swallowed the fact that we’ve HAD to go private to support out SEN kids because a) we appreciate how luck we are to be able to afford to do so and b) because maybe our taxes will support other families in the same boat who can’t afford to do so. DH and I have both volunteered - run brownies/scouts (me) and coached Cricket and other sport (him) to ensure kids, especially those in looked after and vulnerable families, get to have access to the sporting and outdoor ed opportunities our kids got. We thought it was the decent thing to do given how fucking lucky we’ve been ourselves to get from state schools, poverty/council homes/free meals in my case, to university and great city jobs where we can protect and financially plan for our kids.
Now? I feel like a total fucking mug.
Another PP talks about feeling less generous? Hell, yes, I feel less generous. We will use any and all tax loopholes now to circumvent IHT etc and ensure our kids, and only our kids, get the future benefit of our assets. And if that means taking up overseas roles once they start uni next year, selling up and moving overseas (ie no stamp duty on the next property of £2m plus, or £250k in PAYE etc), then yes we’ll do it because threads like this demonstrate just how much spite and disdain people feel towards us and the absolute lack of compassion and consideration they feel towards my kids.
I am done here.