Hi all,
Please could I have some advice re making an in-year admission appeal.
Reason for the move is around friendship issues and impacts of these on my two children. Essentially, one of my children has close friends but they are very fraught relationships – one other child has a diagnosis that results in very significant anger issues such that (with no blame to the other child, parents or school), my child feels as though she is walking on egg shells to try and prevent anger outbursts and is in fear of physical aggression too (having previously experienced this from this other child). There are lots of tears and struggles with sleep etc.
My other child doesn’t have the same fraught relationships but has struggled to develop close friendships by year 4 at school (she has had something like two invites to playdates at someone else’s house in the entire time she has been at school). She is pretty sociable, having made good friends at extra curricular clubs but school friends don’t seem to be the right fit. She finds this very upsetting that she doesn’t have invites which has led to big emotional outbursts and lots of tears again.
So, my vague(!) understanding is that the focus of an appeal is around why we want them to go to the new school as opposed to why it is in their best interests to leave their existing school (although seems to me there may be some link between these!).Anyway, thinking of going with the sorts of arguments below. If anyone could please tell me if they are not relevant/will be easy to dismiss, please let me know:
- As both of my children are deaf, important to give them the best opportunities for friendships for mental health purposes (could cite BMJ study re increased suicide risk in the deaf community but I don’t know if that’s appropriate?)
- Related point is that if they were unplaced, they would be prioritised for a place via the Fair Access Protocol due to their disability i.e. Government policy recognises the vulnerability of children with disabilities in an educational context
- The proposed school offers a chance to make friends in our local area (to be fair our existing school is closer but I was using this as a comparison with other schools that might have spaces) – there are also lots of big school community building events which will again help develop friendships
- The proposed school is fairly unique locally in offering a great and varied selection of extra curricular clubs in the school – i.e. as compared to other schools with spaces (including the existing school) there are far more opportunities for developing friendships in this way
- The proposed school also has really good offerings for music and art (which the older and younger find a really good outlet) and so this would be a good confidence/mental health boost
- The proposed school has a very distinct community feel with lots of responsibility offered to the children eg litter picking, taking responsibility for younger children - all of which would help with settling in, friendship building and confidence
- [not sure whether to mention SEN provision at the proposed school which I have heard on the grapevine is good but I don’t really have any substantive evidence of this!]
- [not sure whether to mention there are a couple of kids in their year they would know from extra curricular clubs i.e. there would be a couple of friendly faces on arrival but I don’t know if this just looks like they are moving solely to be with friends – which isn’t the case as they aren’t especially close to the children at the proposed school]
Having done a bit of googling, I understand that I can also question the admissions authority/school around why they feel that going about their PAN would cause any problems with the efficient provision of education (or whatever the terminology is!). Any tips around this would also be much appreciated please! Thanks so much in advance if you’ve made it this far!!