DD1 due to start reception September 2025. We currently live in a village, on the outskirts of a city, literally just over the border (different council/borough) When putting the 3 choices of school down for DD1, we decided first choice for a large primary school which is rated excellent but within the city we border. It's on the same route to work, about 4 miles from us and we do a few activities in the same area.
Second choice is the local village school, a small one class per year school which is rated good.
Third choice is a school in the next village under a completely different council/borough again, but close to her current childminders.
She currently attends a pre school two mornings a week, which is in the village but not part of the school, and today Dd's nan got speaking to one of the teachers that works there who knows my DD. She told this lady that the village school was not my first choice and explained why. The lady told her that it was likely we would not get first choice as it's out of our area and extremely popular and we would not get second choice of village school either as they like people to have it down as their first choice. Apparently, 11 children from DD's pre school are going there (or have it down as first choice) It's unlikely she will get third choice as it's a church school who ask for attendance at the local church or a letter from your parish. Whilst my child has been christened and attends services occasionally, we are not regular attendees. I just put the third one down as I know it's a good school and know the area. The lady Dd's nan spoke to said it was likely DD would not get any choices and end up in a school across the border which is actually our closest but technically in the neighbouring city and it's one I really don't want her to go to.
My question is, how does the system work, do schools really reject pupils if it's not been their first choice!? In my mind I thought that it was unlikely she would get popular city primary school 4 miles away and would just get given second choice of village primary school and I was OK with that. I can login and change village school to first choice as it's not reached deadline for submission yet. I know of one person who's child did not get any of their parents choices but they do not live in our area. Is it common to not get any of your 3 choices and placed in a random school elsewhere?