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Bursary Advice at Independent School

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heartandsoul39 · 13/10/2024 12:45

Does anyone here have children in private school and understands the bursary process specifically the legalities around it?

In short we received a bursary- got it and then applied for a higher amount due to redundancy which triggered an external reapplication- that was disastrous as the external company in charge of the application made errors that impacted the application and posed us as withholding information which we didn’t and proved this. But the relationship with the school as tarred from this.

The company gave us less than one working day to submit information on a Friday evening due Saturday and submitted the form and said we withheld information. Sorted that with the school and company- and did another application which they essentially denied further bursary due to the original mishap.So a complete waste of time and energy as they literally want evidence of all of your personal and financial information.

Essentially after all of this, the school said, get another job. I’m doing a masters and have a small business as a back story and am a lone parent.

I got another job which was double my original salary but since the bursary was already granted it would trigger another application as you have to declare a change in financial circumstances. They are apprehensive of doing this as the money was allocated for this year already- and for 2025 they will reassess in January for everyone- so it’s more work for them.

Everyone advised against taking the job as there was a very short notice period from this role which meant that though it was high paying, I’d have to reapply for more bursary if it ended, plus the reasons I have above as I’d have to reapply for the bursary should the role end- and if that money was allocated to another family I’d be in trouble. This is also impacted by more applications for bursaries due to the VAT being applied on school fees.

I was told that if I kept reapplying then they’d have to assess if the bursary was right for us as a family- but equally we have to declare changes of circumstances. So that puts me in a conundrum.

Now I’ve got an offer for another higher paying role and don’t want to risk losing the bursary but need advice on how to protect this for my child in the event that the role comes to an end - considering the reapplication is in January- and I need to abide by their rules with a change of financial circumstances.

What do I do?

Hope this makes sense. Any advice appreciated.

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trickortrickier · 13/10/2024 15:05

Well, from what I can extrapolate from your OP, you are doing a masters, running a small business (income unknown) and your earnings from employment are extremely unstable. You are heavily reliant on bursaries to remain at the school and have no plan B or C to fall back on other than getting larger bursaries.

In the most simplistic terms you cannot afford to be at the school. What can you do? Find the best state school with spaces that you can and move your child asap so that you can both get on with life without the drama.

MumChp · 13/10/2024 15:13

You might be better off having your child in a state school. It sounds stressful.

ChocNice · 13/10/2024 15:16

I’m confused by your OP and also by respondents. I thought bursaries were specifically for struggling families. Why are PP telling you to leave?

MumChp · 13/10/2024 15:20

ChocNice · 13/10/2024 15:16

I’m confused by your OP and also by respondents. I thought bursaries were specifically for struggling families. Why are PP telling you to leave?

They are but lots of schools don't bother if parents can't pay their share or ask for a higher bursery. Or that's my experience from family working in schools.

ChocNice · 13/10/2024 16:14

OK- guess it depends on OP’s DC school’s bursary policy then. If all schools are different.

BodyKeepingScore · 13/10/2024 17:01

It simply sounds as though you cannot afford the school you've chosen...

heartandsoul39 · 13/10/2024 18:49

I was upfront with the school about affordability hence the bursary. State school isn’t an option.

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MumChp · 13/10/2024 19:14

heartandsoul39 · 13/10/2024 18:49

I was upfront with the school about affordability hence the bursary. State school isn’t an option.

State school isn't an option?
If you can't pay the fee what then? Homeschooling?

Ferrari50 · 14/10/2024 08:22

ChocNice · 13/10/2024 15:16

I’m confused by your OP and also by respondents. I thought bursaries were specifically for struggling families. Why are PP telling you to leave?

It is never gurranteed and highly depends on how willing the school like to keep the child.

Hatty999 · 03/02/2025 19:07

BodyKeepingScore · 13/10/2024 17:01

It simply sounds as though you cannot afford the school you've chosen...

That is what bursaries are for- people who cannot afford to go there without it. OP work out exactly what you can afford, and particularly if you take the higher salary. Most schools use a bursary company who do a very thorough look into income and savings etc. IF your new salary puts you over the acceptable upper limit of income then the school will say you can afford it- so in full or partly. I suppose where they will quite rightly not like it is if they see you can afford 'more' but are not making sacrifices to pay that bit more. I don't know your circumstances but don't listen to those saying 'leave you can't afford it.' It's what bursaries are meant to be for.

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