Wealthier kids have an advantage. That's just the way it is. Regardless of which school they attend, they will still do better. They have access to tutors, to wider life experiences, usually more educated and engaged parents.
It isn't "fair" but nothing in life is. Rather than punishing middle class families (which is all that is happening with the vat nonsense) how about working to close the attainment gap for disadvantaged children? Supporting less wealthy families so parents don't have to have 3 jobs to make ends meet, and they can spend more time with their kids. Engaging them in school activities, providing support for them so they can help their kids with homework.
There is no such thing as a "failing school" What there is, are schools who struggle to meet the demands of pupils, with more and more kids with ASN, or from disadvantaged backgrounds. Funding is cut year on year. PEF money whilst beneficial is so restricted in how it can be spent that in many situations schools have money left in that fund at the end of the year, but still have water pissing through the roof (metaphorically) because they can't spend PEF on it.
It isn't just about funding, taking the schools which are successful and rolling out what they do across the board so all schools succeed, seems to be something nobody is able or willing to do.
The system in England is a joke. Academies and free schools, where the local authority just gives them money and pretty much leaves them to it, a recipe for disaster. Bring all of education back under the local authority, and make them accountable for making sure there is no postcode lottery.
But once again, the target for all the problems are the "squeezed middle" People who are working to improve their lot but who keep being told "no you can't do that because there are poor people out there" And none of what is being done to those people is actually improving the lot of poorer people.
We are just over the income bracket to be considered higher rate tax payers. We're comfortable but by no means wealthy. We pay more tax (even higher because we live in Scotland) and so we should, because that's what living in society should be about. I'm all about giving a hand up to people who are struggling, I don't want any child to go hungry, or any parent to worry about how to feed their kids this week. But despite me paying more tax, nobody's life is getting easier, the attainment gap is widening, and that's because education is not properly prioritised.
Me sending my child to a school where she has fewer advantages will not help that attainment gap, but could impact on her future. Meaning she won't be able contribute back to society in a way that helps others.