Hi All,
I’m having a right debacle with the local council…
story is, we’ve been home educating DS for about a year now - he’s got apraxia of speech and is what I would consider to be moderately autistic.
He went to a Mainstream Nursery when he was 3 which didn’t work out and they identified these SEN needs quite robustly before the Nursery shut down and we got him an EHCP off the back of this.
We then home educated him because mainstream school would not suit his needs but the only SEN schools were for profound and multiple needs which he does not have.
There was also a period where he had to go into care for 9 weeks and this added 7 new needs to his provisions.
we now want to put him in a specialist school and we found one that is local and perfect for his needs, the only school locally that can provide for all his provisions in his EHC plan.
We did ask a local primary school if they could provide for all his needs, they said no.
The council then did a consultation with them, and they apparently now can meet his needs and he is due to start in September.
I am furious about this because DS will clearly not be able to participate in PE lessons, get himself changed and unchanged, eat lunch at a set time, sit at a desk without stimming - he will likely be a flight risk, he needs a toileting and safe handling plan amongst plenty of other issues.
we are looking to lodge an appeal, but in the meantime it looks like we might be expected to bring him to school without any provisions in place!!
I have spoken with the SENCo and I am sorely tempted not to bring him into school until we’ve had a meeting about how his needs will be met - I’m really worried and I just want some advice on what to do because I don’t want to set DS up to fail, but we can’t get him into a SEN school without some period of either going to Mainstream School or deliberately keeping him home for safeguarding reasons!