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Questions regarding Eton College

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theoldetonian · 16/08/2024 11:05

Good morning!

I am a current House Master at Eton College and over the years I have noticed how difficult it is for potential parents to receive information regarding the application process before they begin to enrol their son at Eton College.

I have decided to start this discussion to encourage parents to come forward with any questions they may have regarding the college - now or in the future.

OP posts:
LittleRedHen86 · 16/08/2024 22:45

Hi, where would prospective parents receive the information?

LadyLovealotte · 16/08/2024 23:09

Any parent seriously interested will not find this difficult. At all.

Num1 · 04/12/2024 08:23

Hi there theoldetonian,

Just considering Eton for DS and awaiting for Stage One Assessment results on the 16th.

We do not have any experience within the family of boarding and was wondering whether you had any advice about supporting a child to understand what this may he like?

Vestibular · 05/12/2024 16:21

theoldetonian · 16/08/2024 11:05

Good morning!

I am a current House Master at Eton College and over the years I have noticed how difficult it is for potential parents to receive information regarding the application process before they begin to enrol their son at Eton College.

I have decided to start this discussion to encourage parents to come forward with any questions they may have regarding the college - now or in the future.

Worth posting this on the Boarding School board as well. And/or on the Secondary Education board. Those boards might get more traffic

fflipflopp · 13/01/2025 20:41

Num1 · 04/12/2024 08:23

Hi there theoldetonian,

Just considering Eton for DS and awaiting for Stage One Assessment results on the 16th.

We do not have any experience within the family of boarding and was wondering whether you had any advice about supporting a child to understand what this may he like?

Hiya Num1,
Bit late to this but I'll bite anyway!
Experience of boarding is very dependent on your housemaster. Once your son gets to that stage of the process I'd definitely recommend asking around anyone you know who has experience with the current HsMs for advice on who to choose, as some are certainly more experienced/better with children - I can also help with that choice if needed.
Boarding is a very fun experience for most people but it's a long five years if your son butts heads with his HsM (granted, it won't happen often as there is still a high level of professionalism within the house). After all, the boarding house is meant to be like a home to the students. Regardless, beyond Year 10 or so the role of the HsM eases up a bit and by lower Sixth students are mostly independent and even go out for drinks with the teachers!
Hope this can help you out a bit :)

Num1 · 17/01/2025 10:05

fflipflopp · 13/01/2025 20:41

Hiya Num1,
Bit late to this but I'll bite anyway!
Experience of boarding is very dependent on your housemaster. Once your son gets to that stage of the process I'd definitely recommend asking around anyone you know who has experience with the current HsMs for advice on who to choose, as some are certainly more experienced/better with children - I can also help with that choice if needed.
Boarding is a very fun experience for most people but it's a long five years if your son butts heads with his HsM (granted, it won't happen often as there is still a high level of professionalism within the house). After all, the boarding house is meant to be like a home to the students. Regardless, beyond Year 10 or so the role of the HsM eases up a bit and by lower Sixth students are mostly independent and even go out for drinks with the teachers!
Hope this can help you out a bit :)

Thank you for your feedback.

DS has the entrance exam later this month, so will now see how that goes.

He is passionate about cricket (any sport as well except rugby) and has a nack for languages. He is a social lad and really enjoys time with friends. He tends avoid confrontation but is quietly confident.

Any advice would be welcome.

AnotherNewt · 17/01/2025 10:54

Can you confirm whether you have authorisation from your employer for this thread?

fflipflopp · 17/01/2025 21:25

I hope the admission process is going well.

The sport situation at Eton is terrific. I ended up loving rugby after getting to try it out in my first year having had no prior experience (surprising considering I was 5’10 and 75kg!) and there were 5 teams so there’s places for all levels of expertise; cricket was similar as well as although I never chose it, I know there were teams for the most and least experienced of players. The scheduled timetabling for sports is a bit different to most prep schools however:

Every term, you choose what’s called a “major sport” that you do 3-4 times a week (IIRC it’s Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and fixtures on Saturday)

Autumn term: choice between rugby or football - in Year 9+10 all students are required (or at least strongly encouraged) to take part in the house football competitions as well. I wouldn’t recommend choosing football for your major sport as everyone ends up playing it anyway and as there are so many students who choose it there end up being loads of teams and a lot of people never get to play in school fixtures despite being still good.

Spring term: choice between hockey and “field game”, which is a sort of rugby/football hybrid. There are also house competitions for it but hockey players don’t have to take part as it’s quite specialist with complicated rules.

Summer term: choice between tennis, cricket, or athletics. A lot of boys also go out onto the fields as a house and play casual football matches in the evening as the weather is nicer and sunlight hours are longer.

Then there’s what’s called “minor sports” which are rotated every half term and are a way to try out nicher sports like wall climbing and martial arts. There’s also fives which is the one that’s similar to squash but played with your hand (it hurts!)

Sports is a massive part of the house and general culture at Eton so it’s good that he is keen, there’ll be tons of new stuff for him to try as well.

It’s nice to hear of a fellow linguist! I was very excited to find out what I could experiment with at Eton - as for scheduled subjects, all students in Year 9 pick two languages and have the choice to carry on one or both for GCSEs. The options are French, Spanish, German, Russian, Mandarin and Japanese (no prior experience for any required). There’s also Latin, including for those who have never done it before, and Greek (which I’m pretty sure King’s Scholars are required to do in their first year).

There are also informal language classes but these are dependent on the teacher who offers to host them as it comes out of their free time. I did Arabic but unfortunately I’m not too sure on the availability of extra languages now as it’s very transient. For A-Level, Italian, Czech and Portuguese are all offered (for students of French, Russian and Spanish, respectively). The language department is also very open to bespoke requests; if three or four students want to learn something not formally offered by the school they’re happy to find a teacher to provide lessons with no extra charge for the students. The one downside is that the school is very reluctant to allow students to take extra language GCSEs, even if it’s the student’s native language, so as not to overload pressure on a student. But even so, there will be many opportunities for language enrichment beyond the standard GCSE programme.

Social-wise, the school is very socially-focused just due to its nature as a boarding school, but also because of the many events that are put on with local girls’ schools (most notably Holyport, StG Ascot and StM Ascot). There are so many opportunities for extra-curricular activities (I personally made some amazing friends in Farrer, the college’s main theatre department) that just about anyone would be able to make plenty of friends, especially someone sociable like your son. Even failing that, he’ll be spending every day with his housemates which is something I miss a lot and helped me to build some really memorable friendships.

Sorry for such a lengthy read! I tried to be as in-depth as possible but feel free to reach out again if you have any more questions, I understand it’s probably difficult to find first-hand experience of more recent students so I’m always happy to give information. Hope the tests go well!
-O

JustAnotherParent1 · 22/04/2025 18:43

fflipflopp · 17/01/2025 21:25

I hope the admission process is going well.

The sport situation at Eton is terrific. I ended up loving rugby after getting to try it out in my first year having had no prior experience (surprising considering I was 5’10 and 75kg!) and there were 5 teams so there’s places for all levels of expertise; cricket was similar as well as although I never chose it, I know there were teams for the most and least experienced of players. The scheduled timetabling for sports is a bit different to most prep schools however:

Every term, you choose what’s called a “major sport” that you do 3-4 times a week (IIRC it’s Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and fixtures on Saturday)

Autumn term: choice between rugby or football - in Year 9+10 all students are required (or at least strongly encouraged) to take part in the house football competitions as well. I wouldn’t recommend choosing football for your major sport as everyone ends up playing it anyway and as there are so many students who choose it there end up being loads of teams and a lot of people never get to play in school fixtures despite being still good.

Spring term: choice between hockey and “field game”, which is a sort of rugby/football hybrid. There are also house competitions for it but hockey players don’t have to take part as it’s quite specialist with complicated rules.

Summer term: choice between tennis, cricket, or athletics. A lot of boys also go out onto the fields as a house and play casual football matches in the evening as the weather is nicer and sunlight hours are longer.

Then there’s what’s called “minor sports” which are rotated every half term and are a way to try out nicher sports like wall climbing and martial arts. There’s also fives which is the one that’s similar to squash but played with your hand (it hurts!)

Sports is a massive part of the house and general culture at Eton so it’s good that he is keen, there’ll be tons of new stuff for him to try as well.

It’s nice to hear of a fellow linguist! I was very excited to find out what I could experiment with at Eton - as for scheduled subjects, all students in Year 9 pick two languages and have the choice to carry on one or both for GCSEs. The options are French, Spanish, German, Russian, Mandarin and Japanese (no prior experience for any required). There’s also Latin, including for those who have never done it before, and Greek (which I’m pretty sure King’s Scholars are required to do in their first year).

There are also informal language classes but these are dependent on the teacher who offers to host them as it comes out of their free time. I did Arabic but unfortunately I’m not too sure on the availability of extra languages now as it’s very transient. For A-Level, Italian, Czech and Portuguese are all offered (for students of French, Russian and Spanish, respectively). The language department is also very open to bespoke requests; if three or four students want to learn something not formally offered by the school they’re happy to find a teacher to provide lessons with no extra charge for the students. The one downside is that the school is very reluctant to allow students to take extra language GCSEs, even if it’s the student’s native language, so as not to overload pressure on a student. But even so, there will be many opportunities for language enrichment beyond the standard GCSE programme.

Social-wise, the school is very socially-focused just due to its nature as a boarding school, but also because of the many events that are put on with local girls’ schools (most notably Holyport, StG Ascot and StM Ascot). There are so many opportunities for extra-curricular activities (I personally made some amazing friends in Farrer, the college’s main theatre department) that just about anyone would be able to make plenty of friends, especially someone sociable like your son. Even failing that, he’ll be spending every day with his housemates which is something I miss a lot and helped me to build some really memorable friendships.

Sorry for such a lengthy read! I tried to be as in-depth as possible but feel free to reach out again if you have any more questions, I understand it’s probably difficult to find first-hand experience of more recent students so I’m always happy to give information. Hope the tests go well!
-O

Edited

Hi. The post sounds too good to be true. My son has an offer for a September start. He is very sporty and that is one of the main reasons to join Eton. I have been told, by other current parents, that to get enough opportunities in team sports one has to pay into the Eton fund. Is this correct?

Artemis126 · 06/05/2025 18:33

JustAnotherParent1 · 22/04/2025 18:43

Hi. The post sounds too good to be true. My son has an offer for a September start. He is very sporty and that is one of the main reasons to join Eton. I have been told, by other current parents, that to get enough opportunities in team sports one has to pay into the Eton fund. Is this correct?

Which house did you opt for the in end? Please feel free to PM if easier

TheCricketers · 06/05/2025 22:29

@AnotherNewt I was thinking the same thing. It feels very unlikely that this would be within policy. Yet in my experience HMs are anything but naive. So is this a genuine HM?

(My own employer bans us all from anonymously posting on forums about anything to do with our work because there’s no accountability.)

@fflipflopp You managed to forget the existence of rowing. Are YOU a real OE?!

fflipflopp · 14/05/2025 23:53

@JustAnotherParent1 I don’t believe this to be true, at least not in my experience. There were people in my house on full bursaries who definitely did not have the funds to donate to the school and were still selected for top teams. It also wouldn’t be in the school’s interests sport-wise as they take competitions very seriously and I imagine bias like that would jeopardise the school’s athletic performance.

@TheCricketers I am definitely an OE! It must have slipped my mind, I was never involved with rowing. But I can detail what I know about it:
It can be selected as a summer sport in the first year instead of cricket or tennis and to do rowing you must have passed the mandatory swimming test that you do when you join the school (being able to swim the length of a pool in full PE kit — I managed to avoid this thanks to an ear infection). There’s then intro stuff like capsize drills before you get into the real sport. I believe if you then choose to continue with rowing you must do specific training for it in the Autumn and Easter terms (off-season) starting from Year 10 to practise for the summer. Then when the summer comes there are various competitions (which I was never interested in enough to watch) like inter-house races both at Dorney Lake and on the Thames and a race on the Fourth of June, the school wide fete of sorts that happens every summer term towards the end of the school year (not actually on June 4th)

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