Oh thanks, tigermoth. Well, he came out of school on the Monday looking quite happy, so I thought things were OK. So I dared to venture a question "How did it go?". Hmm. He apparently forgot to check the time and missed 13 questions on one paper (verbal reasoning) and 14 on the other (non-verbal). That rather knocked me for six as it doesn't leave a lot of leeway if he didn't get all the others right. Anyway, I didn't make much of it (not certain he counted correctly anyway) and things were OK. Until DH came home and asked the same question. I don't think he meant to react, but he showed some surprise when DS said how many he'd missed and that just set DS off. He was upstairs in floods of tears, wailing that he was useless, etc.,etc. Took me all evening to calm him down and then had to have him in bed with me as he couldn't get to sleep otherwise. He was very restless all night, shouting in his sleep and thrashing around.
On speaking to some other mums, it seems that both the papers were very difficult and a lot of children failed to complete them. A friend whose daughter attends a private school said that one of her daughter's classmates (generally considered to be extremely bright) had been complaining about how difficult the papers were. Which might be of some comfort.
The following day I again asked how things had gone. This is either good news or very worrying, but he found the maths paper really easy. He also had to do a piece of English prose (doesn't count towards the final mark, but is considered in the event of an appeal). I'd suggested that he write about something he knows as it would be easier. So he chose (out of about 5 options) "Going back in time"!! Like he does that everyday .
Now it's just a question of waiting. Deep down I know he's grammar school material, but there are no guarantees in life. We now have to wait until the first week in March to find out which school he will be going to.
When do you find out, tigermoth?