Wise mumsnetters - we have a sporty, bright, but lacking in confidence yr 5. We are coming from a small state primary where he is top dog and has been for a number of years, but obviously don't know the standards at private schools. We think he is talented, deep down he knows he is, but struggles to admit it publicly! We are currently looking at schools in the East Sussex/Kent area for yr 9 entry (he is already down for a local prep near us further West for the interim two years). We don't know the area well but are planning a move to be near my aging parents so I am coming to you for advice. We have been told (and are fairly confident) that he would be sports scholarship standard if he continues the way he is. The thing is, we need the scholarship to help with finances, but don't want to put him in an 'easy scholarship' school just for the sake of it. Competitive sport makes him do better academically and if he finds himself in an 'also ran' school sports wise, or one that hands out scholarships willy nilly - (he will need to feel he's there on genuine merit) then we think he'd be demotivated.
I'd therefore be very interested to hear your opinions on the sporting abilities and level of scholarship competition at the following schools... we need to find one somewhere in the middle, as far as how hard it is to get a sports scholarship is concerned. So, from East to West (I think...?!)
Brighton College
Eastbourne College
Bedes
Battle Abbey
Claremont
Ashford
Kings Canterbury
Tonbridge
Hope my rambles make sense and thank you in advance!