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Gave a very polite 'F*** you' to an art lecturer after horrible interview experience

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Tulvander · 24/01/2024 15:32

So last month, I applied for an Art and Design Foundation Course (Level 5) at my local college. I had a BTEC Level 2 Art and Design Certificate from 2014 which I received a D*. Had a GCSE B in English and GCSE C in Math. I even got into a Foundation Course (Level 5) in the same college after completing my Level 2 Art and Design because I was really good at what I did but had to drop out because of family circumstances.

Fast forward 10 years and I have decided to go back to education. For this particular college that I am applying to, my current grades meant that I did not meet the full requirements to enter the course but as long as I can provide a great portfolio, I wouldn't have a problem. I applied and was then invited for an interview which happened a couple of days ago. Prior to this, I had contacted the lecturer to let them know of my circumstances: Mature student, has a kid, need to work part time, require help with student finance, would like to go university to become an illustrator...yada yada. She replied back and her response to my message was pretty blasé and she even told me that I should try doing a Level 2/3 course in art and design rather than applying for a foundation in college. I politely replied and said that I currently have a level 2 certificate and for a mature student such as myself, it would make more sense to enter the foundation course. I explained that I have a portfolio and that I have done a lot of large artworks for companies in the past so I don't get why she wants me to redo my studies to which she did not respond back.

Come the interview day and everything was quite unorganised. We had to be moved from a small room to a larger room because we couldn't all fit. Eventually, students were taken away in dibs and dabs for interviews. This all started at 3:30pm. It was already 4:30pm and I was still not seen to so I patiently waited and even took my laptop out to watch some series to calm my nerves. I was so freaking nervous because I really wanted the lecturers to see that i was a capable individual with talent. 5:00pm and I was still in the room; the place was half empty already and most of the people there were parents waiting on their kids. It wasn't until it was 5 30pm that a student ambassador asked if everyone was seen to and when every parent said yes, I said no. He asked for my name and discovered that someone had accidentally marked me as 'interviewed'! I was waiting this whole time for nothing! He immediately let a lecturer know and this was at 6:00pm! The guy was apologetic but everything was rushed. I was only interviewed for less than 20 minutes and, despite being impressed with my portfolio, he didn't even say or ask much about my work because he was rushing to get the interview done. He said that after seeing my portfolio and hearing me talk a little, I had successfully passed the interview and that he would offer me a place in the college but I felt like I didn't even earn it. I left the place crying because I felt like all my hard work had been for nought.

I got an email today from the lady lecturer who I first contacted and she apologised for her colleague's mistake. Apparently, he shouldn't have offered me the place without a conditional offer task because I didn't have a Level 3 qualification so she had asked if I could come meet her next week. I replied to her saying that it wasn't her colleagues fault and that if the admin hadn't made that error, I could have been given more time to show my skills and prove myself. The whole experience brought me to tears and I no longer wish to apply for the course because I did not feel an ounce of sincerity, compassion, and dedication from the lecturers when I told them about my goals. I felt fobbed off and all I did was waste my time.

I have another interview with a lecturer from the same college but for a different course this time and she sounded way more kind, knowledgeable and dedicated in providing help to her students.

Did you have something like this happen to you before? Let me know.

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littlecreeature · 24/01/2024 20:14

OP, you say you have a level 2 qualification and mention GCSEs. Do you have a level 3 qualification, BTEC or A Levels? That might be the issue to allow you onto the course.

MCOut · 24/01/2024 20:32

They really do sound disorganised and I completely empathise that it was a trying experience, however, you were unprofessional. Remember these interviews are a two-way process, you evaluate them too. I can appreciate she made you feel horrible but that just means it isn’t the course for you. In the future, communicate politely and be thankful that you were spared from entering into negative situation.

I will never forget interview I had when I was in my early twenties for a junior position. It was my third interview, I was one of two candidates. Up onto this point, it had been such an overwhelmingly positive experience and the Senior Manager seemed very keen. My last interview was with a HR Director which I now find odd. This woman came in, took one look at me and calmly proceeded to tear me to shreds. I felt so awful afterwards and it knocked my confidence for weeks. It might have been that she wanted to see how resilient I was, or she had a bad day or that she was just mean.

The point is we will all have to deal with rejection and difficult people, try not to internalise it. Do not let this experience make you less excited. You are obviously very talented, or you would not have gotten that offer so you’ll find a course that is right for you. Good luck OP.

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 24/01/2024 21:35

I work in Adult education and would be very reluctant to take someone onto a level 5 who had nothing above Level 2.
They were disorganised and not good at IAG at all, but fundamentally correct.

Grimchmas · 24/01/2024 23:27

You've come at this from the angle of you need this, that, and the other from them, almost entitled sounding

She is considering paying £30k and spending the next 3 years of her life immersed in this. It's absolutely right for her to be focused on what she needs!

Grimchmas · 24/01/2024 23:28

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 24/01/2024 21:35

I work in Adult education and would be very reluctant to take someone onto a level 5 who had nothing above Level 2.
They were disorganised and not good at IAG at all, but fundamentally correct.

I've worked on and off in universities and it would 100% depend on the candidate. I've had similar who flew, similar who flopped.

fatphalange · 25/01/2024 07:35

Grimchmas · 24/01/2024 23:27

You've come at this from the angle of you need this, that, and the other from them, almost entitled sounding

She is considering paying £30k and spending the next 3 years of her life immersed in this. It's absolutely right for her to be focused on what she needs!

Of course! But to offload all of this on to the lecturer isn't really the done thing is it. A careers advisor, her husband, friends etc. There's a lot to weigh up but to email the lecturer? All of their students have life circumstances.

Charlotte120221 · 25/01/2024 10:18

doesn't sound that bad really? Organisation a bit rubbish but even when you thought you had been offered a place you ran out crying because "all your hard work had been for nought"??

If you want the place they're only asking you to go back in to perform one task. Why would you not do that? Sounds like they're taking your application seriously.

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