I apologise if i should be posting this in Special Education...but i want ALL YOUR OPINIONS/ADVICE
my son is at the point where he has to choose his options for gcse.
he is in mainstream school, not statemented, and has some help on and off in some lessons (a T/A scribes for him as his writing/organisation skills are lacking)
now...here's my problem....
last july he was very depressed- and as a result school suggested he move down to lower level - mainly due to his poor written skills in english and maths- as then he'd get shared TA help.
so we agreed- and he is happier- and has pages of maths work that the assistant has written for him- so his self esteeem is higher.
however, tonight we discovered that because of this...he cannot choose the subjects HE IS CAPABLE/GIFTED (Yuck! I hate that word!) at doing...to the level he is ABLE to do....because he is in the lower stream!
his strengths are ICT and electronics- and at his current level he would only be able to work towards the lower level pass...wheras he was said to be already capable of a gcse last year ... and the "systems and control gcse he really would do well at as it includes computer chip programmming - is not open to him at all.
my point is that last july when the lower level was offered- at no point did they warn us that this would limit his choice for gcse's
i am seething at the moment- as i feel strongly that he will be missing out on achieving higher grades- whereas if we'd left him at the higher level- and FORCED the school to support him better in those classes...rather than take what i now feel was the 'easy option' for the school...then he'd be able to take these subjects.
part of the problem with his aspergers is that he is very able (in his head) but very 'unable' when it comes to writing...so since age 6 he has forever been frustrated as he has loads going on in his head- and i just feel that its wrong to restrict him doing the subjects that he is good at- when by rights, school have a responsibilty to make sure the curriculam is available fully to ALL STUDENTS...
if he had no hands would they insist he did 'lower level work' because he 'cannot write'...no...he'd have help and equiptment to allow him to work at the level he is capable of....i hope i am not offending anyone- just feel so cross that yet again...he is being overlooked because his problems are not obvious.