@SaffronSpice that's a very valid point, there is more than one way to skin a cat. People also prioritise their spending according to what they personally value, and education is the one thing that can never be taken from you. But I don't know if it's an argument for private education per se.
I don't like the generalisations that are happening within the post that people 'lack ambition' in the UK, or that ambition is resented? Boasting, yes. Failing to recognise advantages that aren't borne to people of equal ability that work just as hard? Yes, these things draw scorn. Ambition, no.
I do however think it's important that children from poorer backgrounds get to see and understand possibilities outside of their lived experience. Some children do live very limited lives, because it's expensive to travel, to take part in certain sports, to do all manner of things - programmes by Universities that engage with local schools can be amazing for this. Even a singular event can be life changing. I wish there were more of them, both from higher education and from the schools lucky enough to have the facilities that most state schools lack.
Also the '45% tax band', which only kicks in on earnings of over 125k, the way it's referenced repeatedly in this thread you'd think it was on the entirety of earnings. Do I think this is necessarily a fair positioning of the band? Not really, given how much it costs to live now 125k isn't huge wealth, but then it's all part of the same problem for everyone on a salary - it's not just the higher earners that feel they're getting shafted and notice their standard of living diminishing. Please understand how bemoaning the fact of paying tax toward a school place you 'aren't taking up' can be galling, and isn't really an accurate representation of how things work.
As someone has already pointed out, we're squabbling amongst ourselves over a policy that likely won't happen, whose interest is that in?