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Primary school admissions - 14 miles apart

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Ruralparents · 09/08/2023 00:52

Hi all

I thought I’d join to mine your collective wisdom!

We live in rural Cambridgeshire, 6 miles from our nearest school in one direction and 8 miles from the next nearest in another.

Back in the depths of lockdown we had to a choose a school for our eldest to start at in Sept 2021. My wife teaches at the school 8 miles away and so we chose it because it would be handier. We didn’t know if our eldest would get in there but she did. And it turns out that her catchment school, 6 miles away, was oversubscribed.

Now, in 2023 our daughters school is over subscribed and our youngest has been placed at the catchment school. These two school are 14 miles apart! We lost our appeal and have now got the prospect of trying to manage a 28 mile school run, twice a day.

Cambridgeshire council don’t care, they are hiding behind their protocols and passing the buck.

We asked if our eldest could move schools to be with our youngest and they’ve refused because her year group at the catchment school is oversubscribed.

Out of catchment siblings get the same priority as in catchment siblings in Suffolk and Norfolk, but not Cambridgeshire. And when you live 6 and 8 miles from the two schools it’s fairly obvious you’re going to be at the bottom of the admissions list when either school is over subscribed.

Has anyone had any joy appealing on the grounds of unreasonable journey times etc? I just don’t think anyone should be made to do over 10000 miles a year on the school run. School transport hasn’t been offered but even if we can get it, someone still has to be available to put a 4 year old in a taxi and to collect them etc, it doesn’t help the logistics.

There is an ombudsman, but I think they have just rigged the whole system in order to do as they please and screw those who live out in the sticks.

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CoffeandTiaMaria · 13/08/2023 15:03

Zonder · 13/08/2023 09:16

This.
It's a wonder we have any farmers left who are actually parents. Or that we have teachers for rural schools. Or that anyone dares ask for advice on MN and braves the pile-on and criticisms for not knowing everything.

Well said. Clearly many on here have absolutely no idea what farming entails, that not all farmers employ staff, that few ever even have holidays.
We farmed for years, it’s frequently a thankless job and this thread demonstrates the widespread ignorance by those with strong open yet no insight.
Good luck OP, we experienced something similar years ago where one of our DCs couldn’t get into the village school a mile away and was allocated to one 9 miles from the farm. I worked nights and it was a logistical nightmare.

OvertakenByLego · 13/08/2023 15:10

Imborednow22 · 13/08/2023 08:46

I’ve been through this (separated siblings) and my heart goes out to you, it’s horrific and nearly finished me off.

if you’re wife teaches at school A, I’d say that your best bet is for her to approach her headteacher/governors and request that your child is accepted there as an ‘excepted pupil’ (thus allowing them to go over PAN without having them to regard the infant class size rule). The addition of a simple clause relating to the children of staff would be fairly simple.

The reasons pupils can be classed as excepted pupils are set out in the admissions code. Having DC in different schools is not one of those reasons.

myrtleWilson · 13/08/2023 15:18

I appreciate it is a very difficult situation OP but hopefully the third school route thats opened up gives some breathing space.
However, the amount of posters blithely telling you to "keep appealing" and demanding 'flexibility' have absolutely no understanding of admissions policies and law. There are some fabulous experts on MN who regularly spend considerable time on threads giving really helpful (and honest) advice about how best to appeal, what chances look like etc - including some who have popped on this thread @PanelChair @PatriciaHolm @prh47bridge - I imagine they're sitting on their hands in an effort not to give chapter and verse as to why some of these suggestions are not viable!

ReadingSoManyThreads · 13/08/2023 15:23

Ruralparents · 09/08/2023 07:39

The guidelines on the government website say we should get it, however we were told that if you hadn’t accepted your offered school without appeal you might struggle.

School transport doesn’t solve the logistics problem anyway, my wife and daughter will have already left for school by the time the school taxi arrives so I will need to be here. A farmer cannot rock up for work at 9.15 every day and clear off home at 3pm.

We can try and find a childminder, but again, we’re 6 miles out of the town, unless the childminder drives to our house we’d have to drive into the town anyway.

The appeals panel was online with all 5 members sat in their home offices. From their perspective as home workers then organising the logistics would have seemed easy.

Also, my wife has taught in Cambridgeshire for 9 years and will now probably have to quit her job. It’s pretty grim that her own employers are quite happy to force her out of her job.

As your youngest child is summer born @Ruralparents, why don't you defer for the year. Then 4yr old can spend the year with you, learning how to work on the farm? My friend's summer born 4yr old did this on their farm. Then you try again for the 8mile away school for the following year, either trying to get them into Reception year or Year 1.

Remember that school is not compulsory, full-time education is, so your child can be educated at home, that does not mean sitting at the kitchen table with workbooks all day, life on a farm is learning. Full-time education is only required from the term after their 5th birthday, so your child is not of CSA until September of the FOLLOWING year, so 2024.

So, you could delay this mess for a year. I know you may think it's not ideal having 4yr old on the farm with you, but it can be done and you can make it a wonderful time for you both.

JSaa · 13/08/2023 15:37

Ruralparents · 09/08/2023 08:02

Sure, but rural counties like Suffolk and Norfolk solve this problem by writing the criteria so that younger siblings follow older ones, that way those out on the edge of two catchments don’t get pushed in either direction.

I teach in Norfolk and this doesn’t always happen. I’ve taught a child in Year 2 in my school whose younger brother had to start Reception in a school 8 miles away. They moved house in the end as it wasn’t manageable.

CoffeandTiaMaria · 13/08/2023 15:42

@ReadingSoManyThreads are you serious?
Then 4yr old can spend the year with you, learning how to work on the farm? My friend's summer born 4yr old did this on their farm
Do you have absolutely no idea about how dangerous a farm would be having a 4 year old wandering around? There is absolutely no way the OP could do his job with a 4 year old in tow.
I’m sure the OP would not want his 4 year old dc on the tractor or combine Ffs!
This is probably the most ridiculous comment I have read in MN 🙄🤬

Pandajane · 13/08/2023 15:46

My advice is to put your youngest on the waiting list for your wife's school and suck it up. To be honest, you are asking for the council to make allowances for what was a personal choice. Appealing is pointless, you chose this situation and there will be other families who didn't get a choice who deserve to be considered first. I am also a bit confused - is there absolutely no way that you can run the youngest to school on the days your wife is working? Is there absolutely no childminders who would consider doing the school run for you? Why is your work so inflexible that you can't do it? I'm assuming you work on the farm/at home? Am I missing something about your place of work/duties at work that would make the school run impossible 3 times a week?

upstair123 · 13/08/2023 15:48

No advice but i feel for you. I am in Cambridgeshire as well and having issues with 2 kids in different primary. One is starting special school and the other starting at mainstream, young 4. Been told not allowed transport but both kids finish at the same time. Can't get childminder for special needs child. So much stress.

Hope something changes for you and a child moves school

Sugargliderwombat · 13/08/2023 15:49

PuttingDownRoots · 13/08/2023 09:56

There is... for children who live in catchment. Its non catchment siblings who are below catchment children. (And staff children between catchment children and non catchment siblings)

What's the point of a sibling policy if you are in the catchment anyway?

IWillNoLie · 13/08/2023 15:49

You are entitled to school transport. Don’t assume this will be an individual taxi transporting your dc straight from your door to school. It is much more likely to be a minibus that goes round local farms and villages picking up children. This means if you are near the end of the run (which at six miles you are likely to be) she could be picked up and dropped off up to 45 minutes before school start and end times. This would mean your wife could well have time to get to and from the other school.

OvertakenByLego · 13/08/2023 15:53

upstair123 · 13/08/2023 15:48

No advice but i feel for you. I am in Cambridgeshire as well and having issues with 2 kids in different primary. One is starting special school and the other starting at mainstream, young 4. Been told not allowed transport but both kids finish at the same time. Can't get childminder for special needs child. So much stress.

Hope something changes for you and a child moves school

Appeal the transport refusal for your DC with EHCP. SENTAS can support you with challenging the decision.

NIparty · 13/08/2023 15:54

Sugargliderwombat · 13/08/2023 15:49

What's the point of a sibling policy if you are in the catchment anyway?

Because often there's not enough spaces for everyone in the catchment.

Lookingatthesunset · 13/08/2023 16:00

chimamandafan · 13/08/2023 11:11

I was initially sympathetic to your situation. Then I read through the welter of 'Yes-but, we're different, we're special so the rules shouldn't apply' arguments and my sympathy started to evaporate.

And then I came to this: Erm, I’ve just described our family situation and the practical reasons why my wife and I both think that I can’t quit (a livestock farm doesn’t mean you rock up to work when you like, 5 days a week, so the juggling is tricky), and your response is that I’m one of ‘those men’

Which was a 'the game is up' moment. You seem to assume that no one here has grown up on a farm or has farming family and friends. Or that none of us know how much faster a 12-mile journey is in a quiet rural area than in a town or city. I note that you say a livestock farm and not a dairy farm. IME (as the daughter and sibling of farmers) I'd suggest that a livestock farm is actually pretty flexible. You will have far more flexibility than someone who works 9-5 and has to be at Ely station at 7.30am each day of the week. You work from home.

Beef? Sheep? Alpacas? Water buffalo? Your livestock aren't going to be that bothered if their feed arrives half an hour earlier or later on the two or three days a week you have to do the 12-mile school run. Yes, occasionally you'll have a difficult calving or you'll have been lambing all night or have TB testing or need to take beasts to market or whatever and so on those days perhaps you'll have to pay someone else to take your child into school or your wife will need to do it. You say you're a partner, which suggests that you share the work with other members of your family — your father, a sibling? Perhaps they could support you by stepping up for half an hour a couple of mornings.

And of course, you're in an excellent position to 'lose' your extra fuel, servicing and depreciation costs somewhere in your business — so your actual costs will be much lower they would for most ordinary people to whom the rules apply. Whatever, the minute you played the 'But I'm a partner in a livestock farm' card, your game was up — because you are in one of the most flexible positions possible. And yet still you keep pleading 'special case'. Stop it. Take your child to school three days a week and just stop the mithering. Otherwise you really do seem to be the kind of man who assumes that his wife has to deal with everything related to the children.

^ this.

You have way more autonomy and flexible than someone who works 9-5 for an employer.

I don't understand why your wife would give up her job - surely your DD would still have to be taken to her school anyway?

Yes, it's shit but I don't see why you can't make it work?

PanelChair · 13/08/2023 16:18

myrtleWilson · 13/08/2023 15:18

I appreciate it is a very difficult situation OP but hopefully the third school route thats opened up gives some breathing space.
However, the amount of posters blithely telling you to "keep appealing" and demanding 'flexibility' have absolutely no understanding of admissions policies and law. There are some fabulous experts on MN who regularly spend considerable time on threads giving really helpful (and honest) advice about how best to appeal, what chances look like etc - including some who have popped on this thread @PanelChair @PatriciaHolm @prh47bridge - I imagine they're sitting on their hands in an effort not to give chapter and verse as to why some of these suggestions are not viable!

You might think that, I couldn’t possibly comment!

Every year, I promise myself I’ll “retire” from school admission threads, but then people charge in with very poor advice like “appeal again” you can only appeal once per academic year , “sweet talk the headteacher” who’ll probably say they’d be delighted to accept your child, if only there was a vacancy, “write to your MP” who probably doesn’t want to get involved because for every constituent they placate, they’ll probably alienate someone else, and so on and so I get drawn in again.

Pressthespacebar · 13/08/2023 16:20

CoffeandTiaMaria · 13/08/2023 15:42

@ReadingSoManyThreads are you serious?
Then 4yr old can spend the year with you, learning how to work on the farm? My friend's summer born 4yr old did this on their farm
Do you have absolutely no idea about how dangerous a farm would be having a 4 year old wandering around? There is absolutely no way the OP could do his job with a 4 year old in tow.
I’m sure the OP would not want his 4 year old dc on the tractor or combine Ffs!
This is probably the most ridiculous comment I have read in MN 🙄🤬

My kids go in tractors and combine all the time and the 4yo can pretty much drive a forklift independently so It’s more common than you think.

CoffeandTiaMaria · 13/08/2023 16:24

Pressthespacebar · 13/08/2023 16:20

My kids go in tractors and combine all the time and the 4yo can pretty much drive a forklift independently so It’s more common than you think.

In which case it’s totally irresponsible imo. I know of a farmer who’s 4 year old fell head first from a tractor when he was in the cab too, fractured skull, permanent brain damage. Another nearly killed hi young daughter when he couldn’t see her from the forklift and ran over her (she had wandered outside to see her dad). Had bilateral amputation both legs.
Health and Safety would have a fit, quite rightly too.

Themaghag · 13/08/2023 16:24

I'm glad you have a third option OP, although to be honest, it doesn't sound as if will be particularly helpful. I'm so sorry that you have been given such a rough ride on here and have been constantly berated by people who have presumably been so over-endowed with the gift of foresight that every decision they make is a brilliant one and who have never, ever found themselves between the proverbial rock and a hard place because something they have done in good faith goes tits up later down the line. Oh that we should all be so lucky!

However, this would be my solution were I in your position. I'd write to every relevant local councillor, your MP and Gillian Keegan outlining the issue and stating that they have 24 hours to come back to you with a reasonable proposition before you take the whole thing to the press and if they don't, send a detailed press release to the Daily Mail, the Guardian and The Times (which has set up a special education commission to investigate how and why education is going so badly wrong in this country). You need to provide a precis of the story to date and the things you need to emphasise are the fact that your wife, an experienced teacher in a rural school, will have to leave her job in order to transport your children to their different schools and the fact that this situation has arisen because the government, in their desire to expand housebuilding, have given no thought whatsoever to the provision of the vital services that new developments need, especially those related the health and education. You should also send the press release to your local and regional radio and TV studios too. Once you've sent the press release, ring all of the recipients to ensure that they have received it and send a copy to the local council, councillors, MP, Keegan et al. I think you have an excellent chance of this being covered up various different news media and a very speedy resolution. Good luck!

cantkeepawayforever · 13/08/2023 16:35

What's the point of a sibling policy if you are in the catchment anyway?

It is a common misconception that ‘in catchment’ means ‘is guaranteed a place’ - and as a result, some areas use terms like ‘priority admissions area’ instead, as thus more accurately describes the situation. Children from that area have priority over children from elsewhere in admissions, but are not guaranteed a place. This has benefits in terms of the planning and resourcing of schools over a wider area, but can be difficult for those who live at the edge of catchments.

Say, for the sake if argument, you have a square town, with 4 primary schools right in the middle of each quarter. Each quarter ls designated as the ‘catchment’ for its corresponding school. There are 120 children requiring Reception places in the town this year. However, 35 live in catchment fir school A, 25 for school B, 28 in school C (which has an Outstanding Ofsted so everyone applies to it) and 32 for School D, which has just gone into Special Measures.

In a ‘pure catchment’ model, schools A and D both need to have an additional Reception class, as infant class size law says that under most circumstances, class sizes for R-Y2 cannot go under 30. Meanwhile, B and C run under their normal capacity (and nobody out of catchment can go to C, despite it being desirable and having spaces)

This is obvious inefficient use of resources. So using parental preferences plus over-subscription rules, exactly 30 children are allocated to each school. The children furthest from School A within its catchment may be allocated to B or C, and those with the strongest out of catchment claim for C will get in and potentially free up additional spaces elsewhere .

By combining a ‘priority admissions area’ with rules for where children have priority elsewhere, the council in this hypothetical case have 4 full Reception classes, not 6 each below full capacity but needing a teacher, classroom, etc etc.

TizerorFizz · 13/08/2023 16:36

I’m wondering who was finding time to take DC to nursery? Surely with both parents working on some days, this was already an issue? Or is nursery just down the road?

Livestock do not need constant attention. DF was a farmer. It’s 7 days a week but the hours are flexible. There are times when it’s ultra busy but most people make friends and share the school run. The OP isn’t working in a hospital with patients.m with defined starting times. Who is looking after the 4 year old now after nursery when mums working? Someone must be!

Also op hasn’t given proper consideration to admissions policies, the law and their responsibilities in getting Dc to school. It’s the responsibility of parents but in certain cases transport is available, eg unsafe walking route. Of course families take this option. However it is not available if you don’t use the catchment school. So this was done to the op to find out and plan accordingly.

cantkeepawayforever · 13/08/2023 16:41

themaghag

In this case, where absolutely no admissions rules have been broken, appeals have been administered correctly, and the problem arises because of a choice made by the OP, what do you think going to the press and politicians would achieve?

Had the OP applied to the catchment school for their eldest - which they were perfectly able to do but chose not to - the problem would never have arisen. The system is working correctly, and the OP has been caught out by a foreseeable risk.

What they can and should do if contest any decision not to provide hone to school transport for their younger DC, if thus is refused once they have applied for it. I can understand that the OP would prefer not to use this transport for a small child, but it should be available and, as I understand it, must be provided.

chimamandafan · 13/08/2023 16:47

If you're not lying about this then you deserve to be prosecuted. Everyone who's involved in any kind of agricultural work knows, or should know, that it's a dangerous industry and that accidents around machinery are the most common. Round here (rural west) we had one farmer working a steep field crushed to death when his tractor tipped over and another killed when loading 1-ton silage bales on a fork-lift. Case studies here:

https://www.hse.gov.uk/agriculture/experience/children.htm

Agriculture case studies - Children

Agriculture is the only high-risk industry that has to deal with the constant presence of children

https://www.hse.gov.uk/agriculture/experience/children.htm

cantkeepawayforever · 13/08/2023 16:49

I used to live in an area where ‘sadface’ articles in the local (and occasionally national) press about children not getting into the local secondary were a routine part of the annual news cycle. As were letters to the local MP, local authority, Education Secretary etc etc.

The answer in every case was always ‘there were x children with better claims than you for the available spaces’ (and often eg ‘the family moved out of catchment way back in primary’ or ‘unfortunately using grandma’s address doesn’t work’). Yes, children did gain admission in the regular ways of appeals and waiting lists, but never through political or newspaper pressure.

chimamandafan · 13/08/2023 16:55

IWillNoLie · 13/08/2023 15:49

You are entitled to school transport. Don’t assume this will be an individual taxi transporting your dc straight from your door to school. It is much more likely to be a minibus that goes round local farms and villages picking up children. This means if you are near the end of the run (which at six miles you are likely to be) she could be picked up and dropped off up to 45 minutes before school start and end times. This would mean your wife could well have time to get to and from the other school.

Why is it all down to his wife? Does no one here expect a man to be equally involved in parenting? Is to only wives who're capable of driving children around? Is he too important to do a 12-mile school run?

The OP works from home on a flexible basis. He has far, far more flexibility in his day than his wife who has to be at work at a certain time and can't leave before a certain time. He has no reason for not stepping up.

CatHeartLovePink · 13/08/2023 17:14

This happened to a friend of mine and we're not even rural.

She started working at school A, which was across the LA (not even a county boarder just a different LA) and got her 1st son in under criteria 4 (children of staff) which came after SN/LAC, Siblings in Catchment, First or Only Children in Catchment - they live 2 miles from it.

No defined catchment area and the actual catchment school was 8 miles away.

When it came to her 2nd son starting 2 years later it went down to criteria 3 only so he missed out on a place and was put in the school 8 miles away.

She couldn't make it work, no matter what she did and couldn't get her older boy into her younger ones school.

Her husbands job paid more and was more important.

So she quit her job so she could do the school runs and make it work.

School lost out on a brilliant teacher they've not been able to replace. All for 8 miles.

PettsWoodParadise · 13/08/2023 17:17

Isn’t there some obligation on the LA to provide transport if more than 3 miles away at primary??? I appreciate it only works if applied and no school was within distance or applied to closest school that was within distance and got allocated further. I have heard of DCs going by DBS checked taxi with child seat. Not ideal but keeps the LA on their toes due to cost and logistics int a better solution arises. ?