My son has an EHCP, written when he was 13. He was at his lowest ebb at this point, overwhelmed with anxiety. He was avoiding classes, walking around the school and being non-compliant. He is now almost 18 and trying to start again at FE College. The description of his behaviours is extreme and off putting.
He did start college last year but it didn’t work out. My feeling is that his EHCP did him no favours. He is applying again and is adamant he does not want to disclose his EHCP. It has not been updated for years & does not reflect the enormous progress he has made. He also says, quite rightly, that he received no extra support at all at college. So, my question is this - are we obliged to say he has an EHCP, particularly as we will not be asking for any additional support?