Often I see some long threads stemming from negative (and often inaccurate places)- so I thought I’d start a new thread from my perspective as a parent.
I went through state school myself, so didn’t know what to expect as a first time prep school parent.
what I found was that Homefield offer well beyond what my DS would get otherwise. He has the same focus on all subjects (and his emotional development) rather than just the ones that lead to standardised testing.
What I see when he comes home:
He is interested in books and discussing these with me, classic texts like the Faraway tree etc and has been from a very young age
We go out to restaurants and he discusses fractions and how to cut things into equal parts.
He tells me what day History and Geography are on, just so he can share facts
He loves the afterschool care and becomes upset if I pick him up early. He is also in a couple of afterschool clubs run by the teachers.
He becomes excited over House cricket and sports competitions. He gets competitive and wants to tell me how many house points he’s earned for himself and his house!
He gets up at a stupid hour in the morning, just so he won’t miss the school day.
He comes home with dirty knees and his uniform requires deep cleaning - as he’s been working and playing hard!
he talks about his feelings… something not all boys do confidently- his friends openly talk about ‘my space’ where they go when they feel worried or concerned. This is something I think is amazing. Boys and young men learning how to deal with emotions and openly talking about support and mental health.
when I’ve raised concerns, the teachers respond quickly- and whilst everything isn’t perfect, they’re keen to involve me in processes to help.
The teachers provide homework, but also remind me to work with him and watch his limits, so he still finds learning fun.
Daily, his friends change and he talks widely about all the boys in his year.
He has music lessons that some days he loves and some he doesn’t, but he has opportunities to learn and to perform.
parent coffee mornings and the parent run association help with uniforms, collaboration and just finding your feet.
That is just my two pennies as a parent.