I’ve taught in EYFS for many years - always private nurseries. I have 2 children, one with a speech delay.
One nursery (3-4 year olds) I joined about 15 years ago, I was shocked by the amount of formal phonics/reading they had previously been doing. Rather than rock any boats - I continued with their way of teaching which was: a letter and number focus each week, daily name writing practise in a pre cursive script, and reading books starting in the spring term.
15 years later, and I think I would be shot down if any of this was tried in a nursery setting.
However. The nursery class I had 15 years ago were just outstanding. Their behaviour, ability to listen, independence, creativity etc was extremely good.
15 years later : there is a huge focus on independent, self-led learning - and - hand on heart - I don’t think the outcomes are as good. There seems to be a lot of noise, chaos and a feeling that adult led input is ‘wrong’. My role is to scaffold rather than initiate.
In terms of my own children, I supported DD to read and write early. She started with phonics aged 2/3. Rather than cause her harm -DD’s favourite subject at secondary school is English and she is an avid reader. Her creative skills are excellent too. DS has a speech delay, and I purposely held off as I felt he needed a huge amount of phase 1 input. However, despite barely talking he is fascinated by letters and sounds. I’ve started teaching him to read, he loves it - and now his speech is improving as I think seeing/saying the written word is helping his understanding.
My question is : having experienced teaching in a more ‘formal’ structured way in a nursery, compared to informal - I actually thought the outcomes were better with a more ‘adult led’ style which - would be considered very, very ‘wrong’. Similarly - I think my children have benefitted from being taught phonics much earlier than would be considered ‘right’. Am I crazy for making these observations?