I am looking for an advice regarding year 13th.
My son missed a lot of school due to being very ill at the end of the year 12, meaning he couldn’t keep up with work, revision and projects etc. Although it looked very serious at the time, MRI head scan etc. He is better now but we have not had final medical results or diagnosis…
Basically, at the end of the year he was at B in one subject, D in another and failed third after 2 resits (although I should have not let him attend the 1st one as he was not up to it). Not defending, just hindsight. His EPQ project wasn’t up to standard either.
Obviously very upset about his results and worried about his predictions and not being able to get to any uni, although he prefers degree parentships route anyway.
The school wanted to meet us to discuss his options. Except they didn’t give him any? They suggested he drops the subject he failed altogether and instead goes for financial course – an equivalent of half A level. And suggested should he finish the EPQ this would be worth another half point, meaning he would sort of have 3 levels… No other advise given.
I asked whether he could start back in year 12 again, hold back 1 year, so he can catch up on 2 subjects? They seemed not to be happy about this; said he would suffer socially but also mentioned that we probably get that option on medical grounds…
My son is meeting with the subject teachers again to discuss and I am looking at the options how to best advise him. Unfortunately, although us parents both have higher education from abroad, we are not fully understanding the consequences of what seems like very important decision.
He is not keen on spending an extra year at school but also not willing to lose a third subject, which he does enjoy but finds hard (the essay part that is).
Should he insist on keeping all subjects and try to catch up? What if he doesn’t?
Should he downgrade to financial course and hope this enables him 2 better grades in the other subjects?
Or should I ask GP for a medical letter and request to repeat year 12 and initially start over? I think if he repeats, he would still like to stick with the 3 subject he studies already. Not something “easier” if that makes sense?
Anyone has been in a situation like this? Any advice please?