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St Dunstands, Colfes, Blackheath High School, Bromley High School - SE

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acca2017 · 02/07/2022 23:01

My daughter is 10 years old and we are planning to move her private secondary in year 7. She currently in state primary and doing really well. We visited schools near us this year to have an idea. We were always thinking a coed secondary for her but after visiting single sex schools (girls only) she would like to go there but that wasnt my plan. We visited St Dunstands, Colfes and Blackheath High School so far, unfortunately we couldn't attend Bromley High's open day. I only wanted to view the girls only schools in case if she can not have a offer from any coed schools we can have more options/chances. We didnt want to put all our eggs in to one egg but now my daughter says she really liked the girls only school environment etc... I am trying to change her mind since December last year but she is so straight forward. When we visited girls only school... a year 10 girl showed us around which was really kind, smart and intelligent. She talked a lot about girls only school advantages etc...- maybe thats the reason she would like to go there. I told her that I want her to be in one of coed schools and now she says she will do bad in the coed school exams so that she will need to go to girls only school. She is really bright, hard worker, smart child which is way above avarege. Me and her teachers belives that she will good in 11+ but now I am not sure how she will do in exams. I am not from UK so I do no have any experience in single sex school environment and none of my relatives attended so far, so, I am not sure what is the advantages and disadvantages. There are articles online which shows taht girls do better in all female environment but I think coed is really life, its sounds more normal to me. Am I wrong?

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shannnnn01 · 02/07/2022 23:22

I didnt visit the St Dunstands but we attended Colfes and Blackheath High's open day this year too but Junior side. And we had offer from the both of them. We picked the Blackheath High because my daughter is so shy and I believe she will feel more comfortable in all girls school. May I learn why do you want her to go to mixed school that much???

mamadsk7 · 02/07/2022 23:32

I think you really put pressure on her. Just let her to choose her own school. If she wants to go there that means she will be happy in that school. follow her gut feeling. all those schools are similar to each other so there is no point to argue about that. all good schools but if she feels that she will do better in all girls environment that means Blackheath is the right choice for her. and Blackheath i really safe, nice are with good transport link. she can easily travel to school or spend with her friends after school in Blackheath's cafes and restaurants. But Colfes and St Dunstand's are opposite!

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