We live in the catchment of a very good secondary school and this is why we bought the house we're in, as we want the children to go to this school.
Dh has been offered a very lucrative contract in a different location, too good for us to turn down and is in an interesting city so I feel we'd all get something out of the experience of moving there. But I don't see it as a permanent move as there are a lot of reasons (family etc) for us to stay in the current location long term.
I would like the family to move for 3 years until the eldest dc is old enough to go to secondary school. We have the house in the right place so could start the moving back process round about when the school applications are going in.
But I don't want to move my dc to a primary school in the current location for one or two terms, I would want them to finish at the primary school they were at with the move back being a natural segue to leave the new area.
But if I do that will questions be asked about why I am putting down address X on the application when child attends school in location Y?
It's an oversubscribed school so I wouldn't want to hold out hope for the school having in year vacancies etc.
I feel I can't really win with this situation, I am trying to do the least disruptive thing for my child but the system makes it very difficult.
Thanks for any advice!
(by the way it's not an option for dh to go on his own and rest of us not to move for various reasons)