Hello! I have 3 at Exeter School.
All three did nursery at Exeter Cathedral School but we moved them to our local state school for reception onwards for affordability reasons but also because we weren’t the biggest fans of Cathedral (lots are!). We then moved to Exeter School junior school from state a bit later (at 7+ and other ages) We LOVE the school. We have daughters and a son but chose mixed for all. The new head of senior senior isn’t actually the head of the junior school. The junior head, a woman, started two years ago and is amazing. The new head of senior, also a woman (that may be the confusion!) started a year ago and she’s also amazing. She’s the ex head of the St. Paul’s School in Brazil, so much more international than the school has had before.
Some people choose Exeter Cathedral School for being a chorister which of course is a fabulous life experience…
For pre prep it’s Exeter Cathedral School or the New School (just bought by Exeter School but it’s on a totally different site and the kids still need to do the Exeter School 7+ for entry), or the state schools in Exeter are really good for that age of you just do state until the 7+.
Kids from both Cathedral and Exeter do the 11 + for Colyton (although not many - maybe two or three each year at most, while quite a chunk of state school kids go for it - there’s not the private prep to 11+ for grammar route that seems to be normal elsewhere) which is indeed amazing for results, but a long bus journey and not for everyone. If you definitely want the private school experience for reasons other than results (Colyton results are great - better than private I think!), it’s not that private school experience. Lots of kids also go to Torquay boys / girls grammar.
Finally, a fair few kids from Exeter go out to Blundells, also fab - sometimes kids choose that who have not got into Exeter of Maynard, but it still does really well.
To be honest, we’re spoilt for pretty good schools, state and private!