Just wanted to get opinions/experience really... sorry for the long post
DD is in state primary at the moment and not getting much education as I am a single mum working full time from home in a quite demanding and time consuming role. We are in a grammar area my I don't think DD will be a good fit for the grammar (she is smart but more into sports/drama/arts than academics). I am also strongly into co-ed schools.
So my plan was for her to get into co-ed private schools at 11+ -Alleyns (long shot), Caterham, Kingston Grammar, Freemens or possibly Epsom/St Johns (not sure as a bit too expensive).
Having done homeschooling for the last year (on and off) now, I realise that I will struggle to properly tutor myself or even insist on doing the homework set by the tutor ((
So keep thinking now whether I should move DD to a nearby not selective prep school?
I can afford it (but only just), and hopefully they will do the 11+ prep for me and she will get slightly more all round education and more sport/music/art but it will be much less convenient to commute there and I will be spending the money that I could otherwise save for the secondary school in case she only gets into the more expensive Epsom College/St John's and I need to top up what I can afford from my salary monthly...
With my job, when I am back in the office DD will be at school and afterschool until 6.30pm every day, so realistically we won't be able to do much 11+ prep outside school and DD won't be able to compete properly with the prep school candidates, but I read somewhere that private school consider prep and state school candidates separately and state schools need less marks to achive on exams to get offers (in which case moving DD to a non-selective ordinary prep school won't do her any favour as she will be compared against the kids from selective academic preps, and staying in her state school is a better strategy as she will be compared against kids from similar state schools)?
Anyone has any views? Thanks very much!