@GemmaMarie1 I can only report as I find it. I have kept silent at the negative posts on here, because after all, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but what the negative posters are reporting, I absolutely have not found to be the case for us.
I have twin 6 year old boys there - you can see I am not hiding behind an anonymous post here, as I am the only mum there with twin 6 year old boys, so am easy to find! One is ASD/SPD, the other ASD/ADHD/PDA/SPD. Hurst Lodge has been absolutely fantastic for them - they had been through three previous educational establishments, and ended up traumatised for those experiences (as were we, as a family). We moved to the school after it had merged from Hurst Lodge with Hawley Play to form HawleyHurst School at the recommendation of a good friend whose son did well there, and we stayed with it through the Covid-related problems to it's re-emergence back to its original name of Hurst Lodge School.
Again, I can only report our experiences, but not only have the school been fantastic in their handling of my boys, but also in their support of us as a family. When I've had questions or potential issues, these have been listened to, and dealt with promptly, and I've always felt the school is 'on our side'.
I'm not saying they're perfect - their communication overall leaves something to be desired, although individuals are fantastic in their comms - but I defy anyone not to have something they would want to improve at their school.
Yes, they are moving to another site - and hooray, say the parents I know, as they're moving to a much nicer place! That was the one fly in the ointment for us when we were first visiting; we didn't particularly like the site for the old Hawley Place School, the old Ascot base for Hurst Lodge School (before they bought Hawley Place, as the lease at Ascot was up and not allowed to be extended) was a much nicer place. The place they're planning to move to is MUCH nicer, and I feel will be beneficial for the children. I don't see that moving sites makes it unstable!
We took the LA to tribunal to allow us to keep our children at Hurst Lodge, when going through the EHCP process for them both, and I am eternally thankful that we won that battle. Hurst Lodge may not be "perfect" - but our boys love it, and they're thriving, educationally as well as socially.
I suggest you visit the school, talk to them, maybe have a taster day for your son. See what you think, how your son feels, and then decide. You will always get both positive and negative stories; you must decide whether it is right for your son, and your family.