I've recently started at a new secondary school (I teach English) after working for 10 years in my previous job. I left my last job very reluctantly after a HUGE fallout with the new Head who was extremely sexist and stopped me increasing my hours to stop me going for a promotion (my old job in actual fact).
For 11 years I've held management positions: 2nd in dept, acting HoD twice and have worked p/t since the dds were born, still on management points, pro rata. Until the Head took over and made it clear he didn't like part-timers having management responsibilities, I've had a big hand in how the dept was run, from mentoring staff to writing much of the curriculum and producting most of the paperwork (booklets and guides) that the dept used.
I got my new job at very short notice and I accepted it to get away from the twattish Head, to work at a school more of less next door to my house where an old friend is Head (it wasn't 'jobs for the boys' as such, he knows I work hard but the difference is that he's very family friendly and has let me work 3 days).
BUt after all that time in management, I'm finding it sooooo hard keeping my tongue between my teeth on how the dept is run. Their attainment is down but they feel that the Head is being unreasonable in asking them to try to improve things. Their curriculum is all over the place and has so much room for improvement and this is just the sort of thing I've been working on for the last 3 years esp. But I know they are resistant to change and I'll make myself very unpopular if I start suggesting changes, esp as I'm a 'nobody' now . I know things will improve eventually and my time will come again, either here or somewhere else, but it's so frustrating sitting on my hands!