Just picked up my boys from school, my youngest ds is in reception, old bag just told me she had to tell him to stop pushing - again! Says he shows no remorse (what sort of word is that to use) I said he certainly does when told off and asked if he had hurt this boy, she said no but that he shows no remorse (theres that word again) when told off, I said he does get embarrased and that I will speak to him. She says it just him - no-one else behaves like that (all angels!) I asked if it has happened alot, she said no. I know that my ds is no angel but can't believe he would push this other child for no reason, its always one of two children, when I asked him about it he says that this boy was pushing him in the cloakroom and so he pushed him back on his way back to the classroom and that the teacher didn't see what happened in the cloakroom. He is quite shy and gets very embarrased so I know he wouldn't say anything. I think its a case of threes a crowd, but when I suggested this to his teacher she just ignored me. My ds complained last week twice that these two boys had pushed him and that he had done as I asked and had told the teachers instead of pushing back, now I wish I had told his class teacher this. Am I making too much of this, maybe boys are just being boys, when I tell him to leave them alone and play with someone else he just says that they are his best friends!!
I have got to see this woman at parents evening and I just have afeeling that she just isn't that fond of my ds or of me, so I'm dreading saying something I may regret.