How can I increase dds attention span?

[mumclaire]

Ok I know I'm being very alpha mummy here but was wondering if there is anything I can do now to help increase dds attention span (totally no existant). She is 18mths and I know a lot will come naturally in time and I don't want to be too fanatical about it - just some activities that might help her focus for a little time. She won't sit down to paint, stick things or playdough even for a minute and most toys seem to be abandoned before shes started to play..
DD is my first so am I being overly paranoid??? other kids her age seem to be a bit more focused. I'm a sahm and can't afford to send her to nursery at the moment.

I could have written that post about dd1 at that age, she has just turned 3 and at lat she can settle to an activity for about 30mins at a time (just discovered jigsaws and loves them) but previously she'd play if I was there but follow me about the rest f the time (loved helping me!) also dd2 is now 8months and crawling/laughing etc so dd1 spends alot of time playing with her (building towers so dd2 can knock them down)

I so know how you are feeling and I used to find it frustrating that I could never get anything done but it does get better
(not sure if it has any connection but put dd1 and dd2 on omega 3 fish oil late july and the calmness/concentration started about 4 weeks after she started taking it)

dd2 on the other hand is so contented and happy but think she is used to being left/has dd1 to entertain her

Possibly just leave her alone a bit more? Set her down safely with a pot and a couple of spoons, curl up with a good book yourself.

Also check labels for artificial colourings and sweeteners to avoid them.

She is a baby. The world is a fansinating place for her. At this age children need to build their muscles and it is instinctive to run about.

I suggest you sing songs, play with her and generally have fun. Concentration will come.

You have three and half years until she starts school. There is plenty of time.