Opinions please oh wise ones. DD1 had bad day at school on Friday, apparently didn't feel well but this was not picked up on by anyone - not sure why. Anyway she was off on Monday back in today Tuesday. She was worried about not feeling well again and getting upset about going in. As I would be in school at lunchtime to pick up dd2 who is just starting and part-time (another nightmare!!) I said I would see her and check if she is alright. This seemed to reassure her (should point out she is somewhat oversensitive and gets upset at least thing - can't think where she gets that from !!!). Told her teacher this morning thats what I would be doing. Left her crying with teacher . Come lunch time we duly wait near dd1's classroom. Fifteen minutes later her teacher comes to door and says Everythings fine, do you want to go quickly now because we are coming out. Am almost stunned into silence, mumble something about making sure she knows I kept my promise and head for door. Indignation sets in by then and end up hanging around cloakroom door to catch glimpse of dd1, give her a quick hug as shes going to toilet and then scuttle off. So.......why didn't she want me to speak to dd1, I only wanted to hear from her that she was ok, especially as no-one seemed to have realised that illness was the problem on Friday - they had told me she was upset but not offered any real reason. Should I feel as I do or am I being over-sensitive myself. Bit long sorry, thanks if you're still here!!!