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orangeytan · 22/03/2019 21:35

Not sure if I’m posting in the right place but wondered if anyone has any experience of Godstowe school in high Wycombe? Thinking of applying for dd but would like to get some feedback from anyone who’s dc are already there or been there.

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parietal · 22/03/2019 21:57

i was there 30+ years ago. I imagine it has changed a lot ...

orangeytan · 22/03/2019 22:50

Ha I imagine so! Thanks for replying though

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BubblesBuddy · 23/03/2019 22:27

My DD went. Also a few years ago now.

They have a new Head. I think you will tell quite a lot from looking round.

For what it’s worth, they tend to feed the Grammars at 11, but only a few girls leave, but overwhelmingly senior schools at 13. The majority go on to boarding. Many to the best schools. If that’s your strategy, there is no better school.

The sport, art, extra activities, music, drama and facilities are great. Teaching was a bit patchy in places but I’ve no doubt they are still getting many scholarships to senior schools. They famously didn’t select, but they tended to get pretty bright girls overall!

It’s a well heeled group of parents! Everyone is friendly but some are very ambitious for their girls, as you might expect, but others were a bit more laid back and could afford to be! All in all, it’s the best school. I still have DDs cloak and boater! (Sad me!!)

orangeytan · 23/03/2019 23:29

Thanks @BubblesBuddy I appreciate your reply. Yes boarding is the end aim! Trying not to turn into ultra pushy parent but I’m up there with high expectations Grin

Will have a look then. We are in London now and not really liking the super selective day school 4/7/11+ route being almost compulsory here hence us looking at Godstowe. Even though we’re pushy I would like my dc to look back at a nice childhood as well with less intensive prep.

If you go to Godstowe where do the parents live? We would probably have to move. Thanks!

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DachsAndPups · 24/03/2019 10:21

I think it’s important to look around and get a feel for the school; we thought it was fab on paper and I was 100% convinced it’s where we would send our DDs, but both DH and I hated it when we looked round. Other people adore it. Don’t underestimate the personal feel element of school choice...

orangeytan · 24/03/2019 10:35

That’s insterestjng @DachsAndPups what put you off walking around? We’ve been to see other schools and had the same thing happen to us as well.

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DachsAndPups · 24/03/2019 12:46

It’s hard to describe as it was just a feeling; I guess it felt like the girls were slightly less articulate than some of the schools we’d been to and the teachers didn’t seem to engage with the parents as much. The head was greeting people he already knew with big smiles but ignoring all the people he didn’t know. The early year foundation stage teachers couldn’t explain how the curriculum was either the same as or differentiated from the national curriculum, which bothered us. Having said that, all the girls there seemed happy and loved their school and lots of other people adored it. It’s just important to make sure you’re happy with the school from your own perspective :) It really surprised me that I had such a visceral response of dislike for the school when in my mind it was 100% definitely where we were going to go!

DachsAndPups · 24/03/2019 12:48

It was about 4 years ago though and a lot can happen in 4 years. We are moving the DDs from the school we chose in the end as the older one is getting bullied, so maybe we should have chosen Godstowe!

TartanTexan · 24/03/2019 15:34

I didn’t like the fact they streamed in all subjects in equivalent of Y6, note streamed not set so labelled, effectively, A or B stream.

Very old fashioned system we thought but seems effective to be fair & I thought academics seemed very strong.

Hate labelling of any sort really especially at 11.

orangeytan · 24/03/2019 23:31

@TartanTexan yes that is old fashioned. Thanks for the response as well @DachsAndPups I will take a look around. After London I felt it might be less pressured and don’t want to rely on the apparently extreme selection process that goes on in london day schools.

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VivianSmith · 26/03/2019 17:54

We have children at Godstowe and agree with the recent inspection report, it’s a really outstanding school. Recognise that, like any school, it has strengths and weaknesses, but ‘old fashioned’ is definitely not how we have experienced it. We regularly email teachers and almost always have a response within a day. The head (new last year) has met with us three times to discuss senior schools and some confidence issues our daughter is having, and has shown a very subtle understanding of dd. We’ve found it welcoming socially, very focused on giving girls confidence, and very responsive to feedback.

The streaming thing is interesting. They are already settled for maths in year 5, and maths sets continue to be independent of the streaming in year 6. They do move girls around - eg from stream 4 into stream 3, stream 3 into stream 2 etc., during the year. But friendships persist across the streams, supported by the form identity, which is separate from streams (ie child will be in MIIIX for form, and 6D for stream, and set 3 for maths).

Overall the school does what it says on the tin, produces happy, confident, successful girls.

Re where people live, we find most people live in the beaconsfield/great missenden/frieth/marlow rectangle; although several live further afield - up towards oxford, south to henley and maidenhead. Means some friends live an hour away which isn’t ideal and a lot of social events happen in the High Wycombe area as at least everyone can get there!

Quality of teaching is really brilliant, I do think having subject experts teach children from an early age is really helpful to having them love the subject. Much of it is really outstanding - eg music— M. Serpetti taught at a sixth form college before, and he is very ambitious about what the girls can achieve.

I’m sure there are girls or families that would not thrive there, but the school will do its best to make sure they are happy and doing well in the meantime. It’s definitely worth a look.

BubblesBuddy · 26/03/2019 22:43

I echo where parents live. We had boarders from London too so there was quite a variety. Plus a few from overseas.

The reason they set is to maintain a scholarship Group. This group used to do Latin for CE. The others didn’t. My DD had friends across all groups. Some children needed more help to do their best and went at a slower pace. Where I was a governor in a state school we set for maths too. Many schools set in y7 and y8. Godstowe has a wide intake based on who can afford to pay. It has a reputation for getting girls into top schools or schools that meet the needs of the girls. Setting is a normal way to achieve this especially when the majority leave at age 13.

If you want a brilliant girls’ school you won’t find better and you will get support for moving on to the school of your choice (assuming it’s realistic of course). Look at the destinations list to see current trends. In our year, Wycombe Abbey and Cheltenham Ladies were very popular. It changes over time though.

Heads always know parents of existing DC. It would be odd if they didn’t greet them. In fact if they were not recognised it would be more worrying! I expect Heads to know the children and I never met a Godstowe girl that wasn’t articulate! You might not have seen the girls being relaxed!

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