DS1 is in junior school. He's 8 (just) and in yr 3 in a 3/4 class, 8 x yr 3s, 20 x yr 4s, ie 28 kids. Over this last term it's finally been 'working' for him. His mates are 2 yr 3 girls, 2 yr 4 girls and 2 yr 4 boys. Educationally it's been fair to middling as the incoming yr 3s, being smaller in number weren't guided as well as they might be (not changing library books, not knowing where to queue for lunch etc) and we saw quite a bit of less desirable 9 year old boy behaviour being copied by our then 7 year old DS! Anyway, he's finally getting the measure of it- SO, All Change! In Sept he'll be one of 12 x yr 4s in a 3/4 class with 20 x yr 3s, ie the minority (again) in a class of 32. I'm expecting some regression and some boredom as the teacher's time is taken up with larger numbers of year 3s and meeting their needs. The classes are divided up purely on gender/friendship lines and streamed for core subjects. And one additional moan whilst I'm here- THIS year yr 4s, come September will be in pure year 5 classes of 25 apiece..
DS2 is in yr 1 and is just 6. He's not particularly bright and is easily distracted. We've just been told how the Infants are going to be chopped and changed around in Sept. There are 40 kids currently in yr R and 40 in yr 1, 4 classes. In Sept they'll form 3 classes of 27 apiece: 1 pure year 1, one 1/2 mix, one pure year 2. Guess which class my DS2 gets? Again, bigger class, 2 year age differential. I expect to see a fair bit of '5 year old boy behaviour' being modelled there, too. I guess I'm a tad disturbed to have it spelled out to me that DS2 is DEFINITELY in the bottom 3rd of his class. I'm trying to see it in terms of ability -appropriate learning etc but I keep getting sidetracked into 'being humiliated by kids 2 years his junior'. In his SATS year. The current class he's in has 12 boys in it and they're all pretty good kids. There are no gangs, no real nastiness, and there seems to be no bullying at all. So All Change there, as well.
I know we're all over-anxious about our DCs and fret about things they take with a pinch of salt but I wish I could shake the feeling that they may both emerge from their respective classes in July 08 having gained nothing except how to behave like a child at least a year younger than themselves.
Incidentally, a final aside- the Queen is in our town this morning so we could take the DCs out of school to see her if we wanted to. I'm not up for the 500,000 crowd who'll do just that so DCs went to school. There were 6 kids in DS2's line. Must be what an exclusive private school feels like!