Ok this is my first ever mumsnet post so be kind!
Since my daughter started school she had trouble fitting in, there were issues where she was being left out and excluded from friendship groups. It got to the point where we started looking at other schools and found that there were spaces in the school the next village along. We visited it and loved it. We wanted to make our application in good faith, as due to the in-year application process, the current school have to read your application and sign that they agree to that moving on is in the child's best interests. We didn't want the relationship with her current school to break down if the application became unsuccessful so we made an offer on a house in that village and went down the moving houses route. We are currently renting, this is our first ever house purchase and to say our finances have been stretch is an understatement. Anyway we kept checking about spaces, being told there were still 2 spaces (even now the local council still states there are 2 spaces). On the day we exchanged I was told there are still 2 spaces an no children on the waiting list or applications pending - so we exchanged. I placed the application that night.
Just found out today 11 days later that she didn't get in on class size grounds. The 2 other spaces have gone.
We can't pull out of the house move- we are 10s of thousands of pounds down the line and I'm an emotional wreck.
We are going to have to appeal but I don't have a clue where to start.
It's all such a mess. I have a little boy too so in a few years time when he starts school he'll be in a different school from his sister.
It's going to significantly impact on my work.They've offered my 5 year old child to be taken via taxi- on her own which ofcourse I'm not comfortable with and we won't accept.
Has anyone ever had a successful class size appeal- are our grounds strong enough. What have we done!?