I did some fiddly paper folding with a class recently. It was really interesting to see that some kids in the class were good at it and made the object really quickly. Some weren't so good but managed after a lot more time and swearing. Some kids tried for about two seconds, then threw the thing down in disgust and refused to have anything more to do with it.
Who has the right mindset? Did the kids who threw it down have the wrong mindset? Something was wrong, lack of patience? Resilience? Not their kind of thing? If they'd been handed something else tricky, but more appealing to their interests would they have stuck at it? I don't know.
What I did find interesting was that I had made the damn thing the night before. My strengths do not lie in the creative field, and also the instructions were unclear. I tried really hard and gave up after about 20 minutes of wrangling. But what kept me going? I was looking for something else to do with the class and came across someone on Twitter saying 'awesome activity, my Y7s just made a bunch of these, it worked really well'. Well, if a bunch of Y7s could do it, then surely so could I. I went back to it, figured out where I was going wrong and finished it. So do I have a fixed mindset? A growth mindset? Did my mindset change halfway through the task?
I don't think pigeonholing people is helpful. Encouraging resilience is good, praising effort is good, but so is also showing them that a target is attainable.
There was a poll on Twitter recently, 'do you think that anyone, with enough work, could get an A* at maths A-level'. 25% of respondents said yes.
. I wonder how much work they were imagining.