Am considering having dc's go to (very) selective private schools in Oxfordshire. They will be coming from state school. Having no experience of indie sector, I wonder how much a jump is it from state to private when having to prepare for the 13+ exams? I have ds and dd so looking at Magdelen College/Abingdon Boys/Oxford High School for Girls. Thoughts? Thank you. I've had a thread on Abingdon Boys before but particularly would like to hear from parents that have made the jump from State to Indie at 13.