Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Education

Join the discussion on our Education forum.

Education going downhill

2 replies

whitefingers · 07/11/2006 20:09

When my DS (7) first started school he was very bright, he was the highest reader in his class and we were told he had the IT and maths skills of a 10 year old.

Now however it all seems to be going downhill, his reading is still good however only with words he recognises, he will not try with new words and has trouble sounding out the letters in order to work out the word.

His writting is terrible, hardly understandable and his maths is now adverage whereas before he was very far ahead.

He doesn't seem able to work things out, he just doesnt think...I don't know if it's lazyness or if its that he genuinly can't do it. For his homework tonight for instance he had to read a short story and then answer a few questions, he started it at 6pm and has only just finished and even that was down to me practically giving him the final answer due to high levels of frustration and a loss of temper from myself.

Basically the story clearly explained that "albert" was very trusting and believed everything anyone told him. It then went on to say that one day "Sid" told his friends to watch whilst he told Albert that his dad was asked to play for England but decided not to as he didn't like the colour of the shirt.

The question was "why did sid tell his friends to watch whilst he told Albert the story about his dad?".

I know he's only 7 but isnt this blatently obvious or am I expecting too much of him? We were sat there for over an hour going over the story and I was giving him as many clues and hints as I could possibly come up with without giving him the answer. "what does it say about Albert?" "was the story about the football true?" "so why did he tell him it?" etc etc and my son kept saying things like "because he likes football?" "because his friends were not looking?".

Should I be concerned or am I over-reacting?

OP posts:
fizzbuzz · 07/11/2006 20:33

Has he lost his confidence, in that he will not try to understand new words?
It is strange that he started well and went down from there. Is it possible he has some processing problems (classic dyslexia problem) if he is struggling with his questions.
I would contact the school and ask them for their opinion. I'm a teacher and we usually pick up pretty fast when a student has a problem.
Do not let them fob you off with anything, tell them your concerns and ask them what they can do about it.
6 or 7 is when dyslexia is usually uncovered, but from what you say, he doesn't sound like a classic dyslexic. Hope this helps.

wakeupandsmellthecoffee · 07/11/2006 20:48

Seriously not having a go at you just my opinion , I have a 7yr Ds and i am anal about home work so I know how you feer seriously I do but speak to the school as fizz buzz said but has he had any friend problems lately . yr three (I assume he is in year 3)is a big change from year 2 . And I personally think that amount of time spent on homework for one thing is just too much ,i have a feeling that he just switched off after the first hour . Dont get me wrong I have done this ,our home work is supposed to last 20 mins tonight we had last nights to do as well (went out to golf ) (latest thing ,he thinks he is bloody Tiger Woods LOL ) so we had two lots to do It took a good hour and 20 mins .Hope hings get sorted for you .

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread