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trouble settling in at nuresry school

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gemmiegoatlegs · 15/09/2006 12:03

My ds has started at his nursery school this week. He seemed to be settling in ok though was crying when I picked him up yesterday. Today I took him in at quarter to nine, then at 10 o'clock i got a call from the school saying he'd been crying for half an hour and could i come?

They can't figure if anything has triggered this bout, and my poor ds went through the motuions, sat for a story, helped bring the milk and just cried the whole time. I don't know what to do to help him. He has been at a childminder since 18 months old and is very familiar with big groups of kids from the toddler groups he goes to every week.

when I got to school, i stayed with him for the rest of the morning session. As long as I was there he did everything he was supposed to eg, sat on the carpet for a story, did tidy up time. I even ended up reading stories to half a dozen kids. He is not usually clingy with me like this.

I understand he is in a new routine but i am starting uni myself in a week and a half and I can't be on call every time he needs me.

Moreover,.I am worried that if he knows that the school will phone me if he cries, he will keep on crying. Does anyone have any advice on settling them in?

OP posts:
noonar · 15/09/2006 18:20

How old is your son? Is he at a nursery or in reception?

gemmiegoatlegs · 15/09/2006 21:11

he turned 3 in June, just started nursery.

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noonar · 16/09/2006 15:56

I kepy my dd's settling in sessions really short-up to 2 hours, in the early days. I stayed long enough to stop her clinging on to me, then said a proper goodbye. then i returned before she'd had enough of it. i made this decision because she was unhappy with a full session. she took 8 or 9 weeks to settle! i think little and often is best. i'd be pleased that they'd rung me up, actually , otherwise he will just think nursery= crying and want to go home. try to keep experiences short and sweet, for now. btw, i know that not everyone has this flexibility, due to work etc. i was on maternity leave when dd1 settled in.

noonar · 16/09/2006 15:56

'kept' sorry

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