My DCs attend a Voluntary Aided school, which raises money from parents to pay its annual contributions to the Diocesan Maintenance Fund - about 45 per year per child, so not very much, but significant if you're stretched or have a lot of kids.
The problem is the wording of the letter, which implies an obligation to pay, and the very public reminder your child brings home if you don't pay, along with an invitation to discuss the matter with the Headteacher if you can't or won't oblige.
I don't want the school to suffere financially, but I know this process is wrong, because the payments are meant to be voluntary.
I have mentioned this is the annual school parents' survey a couple of times, but nothing has been done about it.
I don't want to "discuss it with the Headteacher", and I don't want to raise a formal complaint unless I can do it anonymously. It's a small school, with a mostly affluent and vocal parent population, and anyone who rocked the boat would soon be outed and ostracised.
I had a look at the Ofsted complaints procedure, but that requires you to exhaust the school's formal procedures first.
It's a delicate matter, because the school needs the funds, and I don't want to be the party pooper, but somehow the message about their innapropriate communications needs to get through.
Any suggestions?