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Why is their a sibling category at secondary school allocation?

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Hulababy · 04/03/2014 16:48

I am curious, nothing more.

But I am not sure why a sibling category would be relevant at secondary level, as once a child is 11y they are more than capable of making their own way to and from school without parental involvement.

Not all LEAs/schools do have the sibling category, but why do seem feel it is necessary?

Anyone know the answer?

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Hulababy · 04/03/2014 16:48

Argh - there not their - changed my title part way through and forgot to correct that bit. Sorry!

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GinSoakedMisery · 04/03/2014 16:50

Child with SN who can't go to school unaccompanied?

Certainly my child (with SN) is starting middle school in Septemebr and no way could he go by himself, unlike his brother at the same age.

AllMimsyWereTheBorogroves · 04/03/2014 16:54
  1. Uniform can be handed down to the younger sibling.
  2. Family can build strong links with the school over a long period.

Not the strongest reasons for a sibling category, but I can see where it comes from.

Sibling priority is tough on families with only children or who apply for a different school for a younger child, e.g. because the older one goes to a single-sex school (our position).

Mintyy · 04/03/2014 17:01

I don't think it should exist, especially when you consider how many single sex schools there are at secondary. I am forever moaning about it because I live in an area with an awful lot of dodgy deals going on to get first children into the most popular over-subscribed schools.

Floggingmolly · 04/03/2014 17:04

You still only have to accompany one child, Gin? So it still doesn't actually matter.

Hulababy · 04/03/2014 17:24

Gin - but that would only affect that one child wouldn't it? So parents would accompany them to their school and the other children go alone. Unless a family with more than one child with SN I suppose.

It doesn't affect me as DD is alrady at secondary and we were not affected by such policies. Just read about it on other threads in the past.

I do think that on the whole it shouldn't exist at secondary age I think. Not heard a good arguement for it so far really.

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GinSoakedMisery · 04/03/2014 17:38

Well yes, but still would make more sense to have both in same school.

That's the only (albeit weak) reason I can think of.

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 04/03/2014 17:44

I am not convinced by the arguments for sibling priority at secondary school either, but I doubt it will ever change.

TalkinPeace · 04/03/2014 17:52

when schools are miles apart without decent public transport it makes total sense
why should the LEA send two buses to one house?

ComeIntoTheGardenMaud · 04/03/2014 17:54

Yes, I suppose my views are shaped by the fact I live in a very urban environment where all schools are accessible by public transport.

tiggytape · 04/03/2014 17:54

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aprilanne · 04/03/2014 17:55

usually in scotland you just go to the secondary nearest young .we don,t tend to pick .all children from same family go to the same school

mumsneedwine · 04/03/2014 17:57

Community and strong links between families and school. Same holidays. No conflicting parent evenings and events. Hand down uniform. Just a few things.

tiggytape · 04/03/2014 17:58

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mumsneedwine · 04/03/2014 17:58

Oh and totally agree that only siblings in catchment should get priority.

clam · 04/03/2014 17:58

What if you don't like the nearest secondary aprilanne? Is there any possibility of electing a different school if you prefer?

bamboobutton · 04/03/2014 18:00

where i am there is about 7 miles between high schools and no rural public transport.

if im in town A and one of my dc has to get to town B seven miles away how is s/he to do it under their own steam? let an 11yo cycle 7 miles on narrow country b roads?

BackforGood · 04/03/2014 18:02

I agree with you Hula - evn though I have 3dc, so theoretically would benefit from the rule. It seems daft. The very good reason for it at Primary is that and adult would find it very difficult to get dc to more than one school on time, but, as you say, in Secondary, they get themselves there.
If it's that rural that they are sending a bus, then I'm guessing the same school would be the one allocated anyway - you wouldn't have the same range of choice that people in more built up places theoretically have.

mummytime · 04/03/2014 18:04

There are no state single sex schools in my area, so I don't think that is a major argument (there were none except Catholic ones where I grew up either).

I don't think it is a very strong criteria, but I am thankful for it, or I would have gone through 3 rounds of worry and possibly appeal/waiting lists for each of my children.

They did try locally to discount siblings who had moved further from school after the first one had got a place, but that was ruled to be unfair because people might have to move especially if they lived in the rented sector.

aprilanne · 04/03/2014 18:11

clam the only possibility we have here in falkirk is non denominational .or catholic school .if you don,t like your local school tough luck .maybe its just the scottish way . and they have put a bar now on going to faith school if you are not baptised .

Mintyy · 04/03/2014 18:15

I live in London and the four state schools that are available for me to choose from (for my 2 children) are single sex. So the need for sibling priority absolutely does not wash with me ... its a complete nonsense afaic, and causes so many inequities and oddities in the system.

For instance, I know a really talented young person who got a place at an uber prestigious state school for 6th Form, even though the family live way outside the normal catchment. And now her younger sibling will go there too. They will be at school together for 1 year exactly. I am sure the families who live on the fringes of the catchment for that particular school would be infuriated to hear about this.

I have many other stories like this just within my own relatively modest social circle.

tiggytape · 04/03/2014 18:21

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Mintyy · 04/03/2014 18:26

Absurd, isn't it?

Mintyy · 04/03/2014 18:28

Oh, I know two families in this situation. One of the schools is Graveney and the other is Haberdasher's Askes. And the siblings are opposite sex in both cases ... so the uniform argument is also irrelevant.

Hulababy · 04/03/2014 18:32

This rule does exist in my LEA, but only for siblings within catchment. The sibling out of catchment doesn't exist from what I can see.

But this is a city with a lot of very accessible schools. Almost all have their own buses running through areas where their catchments run, plus some non catchment areas. We also have pretty good, regular public bus routes serving all these schools.

There really is no need for this rule in my LEA, yet it does exist. It just doesnt seem right.

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